My mom and my brother don't get along at all. he hates her thats a fact as for her I don't know if she hates him but I am sure she doesn't have much respect for him as an individual.I heard my mom whisper many times" he is just like his father" and Its a fact that my mother doesnt think to highly of my father. I am not sure if he knows about her saying that or if she told him that to his face or not. But ,My mother treats my brother differently that she treats me . She doesnt treat neither me or him better than the other its simply different. For me she can say I am cold and conninving and give me way too much credit I guess.but she would never see him like that or think that way about him. For example, if A says: B is such a wonderful child soconsiderate of others , he would never hurt a soul because he cares so much. Its not the same then A saying: B is an idiot who doesn't understand anything ,he couldn't hurt a fly. My mom view my brother like A in the second part of the example. She just puts him down don't give him worth . My mom will do alot of things for my brither not out of love but simply because she thinks he cant do it himself.
She definitely has anger issues. It could be that she despises your dad and she's constantly reminded by have you kids around. Sounds like she's just angry at how her life is right now. Maybe she needs a boyfriend and I'm not saying that to try and be funny. Maybe she needs a hobby. Does she have many friends? Real friends?
She started to have some friend ,she told me about that gym buddy she's got at work and about some people she started to talk to. I was suprise about that since she never really talked about friends before except for old friends that were really far away in another continent or something. Has for having a lover I think it might be possible now, since my father died some of her issues i guess left too. She seems to feel free now(my mother is very religious so i guess divorce for her wasn't an option this and money benefits). But even if she got her freedom back its wrong to just act like nothing happened, to forget about everything and live on. me and her could never get along that way.
Can I fix my issues with my mom? IIN?
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Does she get along with ur brother?
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My mom and my brother don't get along at all. he hates her thats a fact as for her I don't know if she hates him but I am sure she doesn't have much respect for him as an individual.I heard my mom whisper many times" he is just like his father" and Its a fact that my mother doesnt think to highly of my father. I am not sure if he knows about her saying that or if she told him that to his face or not. But ,My mother treats my brother differently that she treats me . She doesnt treat neither me or him better than the other its simply different. For me she can say I am cold and conninving and give me way too much credit I guess.but she would never see him like that or think that way about him. For example, if A says: B is such a wonderful child soconsiderate of others , he would never hurt a soul because he cares so much. Its not the same then A saying: B is an idiot who doesn't understand anything ,he couldn't hurt a fly. My mom view my brother like A in the second part of the example. She just puts him down don't give him worth . My mom will do alot of things for my brither not out of love but simply because she thinks he cant do it himself.
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She definitely has anger issues. It could be that she despises your dad and she's constantly reminded by have you kids around. Sounds like she's just angry at how her life is right now. Maybe she needs a boyfriend and I'm not saying that to try and be funny. Maybe she needs a hobby. Does she have many friends? Real friends?
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She started to have some friend ,she told me about that gym buddy she's got at work and about some people she started to talk to. I was suprise about that since she never really talked about friends before except for old friends that were really far away in another continent or something. Has for having a lover I think it might be possible now, since my father died some of her issues i guess left too. She seems to feel free now(my mother is very religious so i guess divorce for her wasn't an option this and money benefits). But even if she got her freedom back its wrong to just act like nothing happened, to forget about everything and live on. me and her could never get along that way.