I thing Your mother was young and under too much stress. Young parents make many mistakes in raising their kids, especially if they're having hard times. Your mother does love you and I'm sure she's sorry for the way she treated you. She hasn't apologized because she's ashamed for the way she behaved. Forgive her and move on. Someday, she will tell you when notices that you love her. Both of you can't live in doubt about loving each other. I'm sure she also thinks you hate her because you still remember and haven't let go.
Best of luck to you
I understand what you say but I just can't bring myself to be the biggest person and forgive her. In the past ,I though I had forgiven her but i realise over time that there's a reason I get annoyed more easily when she's there or when she does something. I basicly just act like a brat most of the time with her and do obvious mistake by acting out . I get emotional and can't seem to control it in her presence. It sucks because I am just not use to be unable to not have that self control.How can i overcome that?
Can I fix my issues with my mom? IIN?
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I thing Your mother was young and under too much stress. Young parents make many mistakes in raising their kids, especially if they're having hard times. Your mother does love you and I'm sure she's sorry for the way she treated you. She hasn't apologized because she's ashamed for the way she behaved. Forgive her and move on. Someday, she will tell you when notices that you love her. Both of you can't live in doubt about loving each other. I'm sure she also thinks you hate her because you still remember and haven't let go.
Best of luck to you
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I understand what you say but I just can't bring myself to be the biggest person and forgive her. In the past ,I though I had forgiven her but i realise over time that there's a reason I get annoyed more easily when she's there or when she does something. I basicly just act like a brat most of the time with her and do obvious mistake by acting out . I get emotional and can't seem to control it in her presence. It sucks because I am just not use to be unable to not have that self control.How can i overcome that?