I'm not one of those guys who's into really chubby women (although I don't see anything wrong with either the women or the guys who like them), but I've never found thin women attractive either. Size 14 is the sweet-spot for me.
I've never found skinny legs sexy at all. Ever since I was a kid, I've always had a big thing for shapely calves and rounded thighs, and I was into thick butts long before they became fashionable. I figured out a while ago that women with that body shape look lushly feminine and sensual to me, while my instinctive reaction to thin women is to see them as people who are into denying themselves bodily pleasures such as eating and sex. I know that's an unjustified stereotype, but that's my gut reaction.
A few years back when I was single, I met a woman via an online dating website. We exchanged messages and phone calls for a few weeks, but the only photos of her that she sent me were modest and didn't show much of her body. I arranged to fly to her town to meet her, and she met me at the airport wearing a blouse and some snug-fitting trousers. It was only then that I realised she had impressive breasts, but what really got me where it counts were her thighs. As soon as we got in her car, I couldn't resist reaching over and grabbing her nearest thigh, and I heard myself telling her that I loved them. It sounded crass as hell, but it was honest and completely uncalculated, and she just sort of melted right in front of my eyes. She was naked about two minutes after we got to her house, and I saw that she had a good figure as far as tummy flab and weight elsewhere was concerned, but she was one of those women like you who put weight on at her thighs. I later figured out that, like you, she was very unhappy with how her thighs looked, but I thought her whole body was sexy as fuck.
Everyone has their own particular tastes and some guys are so insecure that they decide that "sexy" for them is whatever the media or someone else tells them is sexy, but I'm sure that I'm not unique, and there are plenty of guys out there who are into thighs with some meat on them.
A huge part of looking sexy to someone else is how you feel about yourself. If you continue to feel ashamed of your thighs and stay fixated on the idea that they can't be attractive to any man, then you're going to be constantly giving off a negative vibe about your own body. As a rule, us guys aren't all that sensitive to non-verbal signals, but if you come across as someone who believes she looks like crap or even "averagely ugly" - as you say - then you're going to come across as not being a fun person to be with, and the only guys attracted to angsty, negative women are guys with problems of their own.
Can girls with thick thighs be attractive?
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Oh fuck yes!
I'm not one of those guys who's into really chubby women (although I don't see anything wrong with either the women or the guys who like them), but I've never found thin women attractive either. Size 14 is the sweet-spot for me.
I've never found skinny legs sexy at all. Ever since I was a kid, I've always had a big thing for shapely calves and rounded thighs, and I was into thick butts long before they became fashionable. I figured out a while ago that women with that body shape look lushly feminine and sensual to me, while my instinctive reaction to thin women is to see them as people who are into denying themselves bodily pleasures such as eating and sex. I know that's an unjustified stereotype, but that's my gut reaction.
A few years back when I was single, I met a woman via an online dating website. We exchanged messages and phone calls for a few weeks, but the only photos of her that she sent me were modest and didn't show much of her body. I arranged to fly to her town to meet her, and she met me at the airport wearing a blouse and some snug-fitting trousers. It was only then that I realised she had impressive breasts, but what really got me where it counts were her thighs. As soon as we got in her car, I couldn't resist reaching over and grabbing her nearest thigh, and I heard myself telling her that I loved them. It sounded crass as hell, but it was honest and completely uncalculated, and she just sort of melted right in front of my eyes. She was naked about two minutes after we got to her house, and I saw that she had a good figure as far as tummy flab and weight elsewhere was concerned, but she was one of those women like you who put weight on at her thighs. I later figured out that, like you, she was very unhappy with how her thighs looked, but I thought her whole body was sexy as fuck.
Everyone has their own particular tastes and some guys are so insecure that they decide that "sexy" for them is whatever the media or someone else tells them is sexy, but I'm sure that I'm not unique, and there are plenty of guys out there who are into thighs with some meat on them.
A huge part of looking sexy to someone else is how you feel about yourself. If you continue to feel ashamed of your thighs and stay fixated on the idea that they can't be attractive to any man, then you're going to be constantly giving off a negative vibe about your own body. As a rule, us guys aren't all that sensitive to non-verbal signals, but if you come across as someone who believes she looks like crap or even "averagely ugly" - as you say - then you're going to come across as not being a fun person to be with, and the only guys attracted to angsty, negative women are guys with problems of their own.