Can barely talk

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I'm a shy 17 year old and have been used before.. been in only 1 relationship and it killed me but i'm getting back on the horse.. haha

Anyways,
I was wondering if it was normal that I can talk to this one girl I adore very much on facebook but I can't really talk to her in person.. Like I just get all nervous and don't know what to say...

When I do talk to her on facebook.. I am fine and she seems to be at least a lil interested in me cause when I say we should do something.. *nerdy example of we should study sat's together or being in my study group or just goin to play some volleyball sometime* she enthusiastically says yeah! *I've only known her for a week or so but iono..* She seems to be very outgoing so I don't know if she's into me, not into me or just being nice like you know?

But I don't wanna creep her out by .. IONO .. wanting to spend more time w/ her? Like .. is it normal to have her on my mind a lot of the time and want to hang out with her? but also get so damn shy when I do hang out with her a bit?. I dont wanna seem like im not interested but I'm just so damn shy and nervous.. especially when she's with her best friend who is also so damn attractive which makes it so much more difficult...

leave some comments or suggestions please!

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  • Carolinne
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way. Just keep trying, you will get used to it. The human brain is not made to fear the same things forever. If you try to talk to her everyday, sooner you will be absolutely normal. Or you could also start practicing with other girls. :*
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  • vnderbnder
    12 years ago

    lol, that happens to all guys and attractive women, has for many centuries.

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