Not always from what I've seen. There are some women shallow enough that if she sees a man really unattractive, she will never become attracted to him even if she sees that he is the most smooth, confident, good sense of humored guy, she sees that he makes 7 figures a year, and she also sees that he is both the most badass guitar player and best football quarterback. If she sees that the man has every single one of those things, she would still not touch him with a ten foot pole because of his ugly looks. Yes, there are women that shallow, I've seen them. I do though agree with friedchiken that there also are some women who can not find you attractive at first, but then change her mind if you really show other good things about yourself, even if the good things don't even come close to the examples I listed above. But I do know that if a woman finds you unattractive at first and then you show her you got no confidence, then she really won't change her negative opinions about you, ya agree?
Attraction is based on many things. If someone doesn't know you all they have is physical appearance and initial meet and greet. If say they had a shallow idea now they get a deeper side of you they realize they like. Attraction is not only apperence and not everyone judges on that either.
You're right that appearance is the first thing women see whether they will start loving or hating what else they'll see as time goes on. The problem with the shallow women is if they don't like the first part, the appearance, they'll refuse to stick around and see what other great qualities you may or may not have. But the less shallow women realize that they could be missing out on finding out other great qualities, and they'll stick around a bit longer to see what they are. In a sense when put way, the shallow women are the less patient ones.
Can a woman change her mind about attraction?
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That's how attraction works duh
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Not always from what I've seen. There are some women shallow enough that if she sees a man really unattractive, she will never become attracted to him even if she sees that he is the most smooth, confident, good sense of humored guy, she sees that he makes 7 figures a year, and she also sees that he is both the most badass guitar player and best football quarterback. If she sees that the man has every single one of those things, she would still not touch him with a ten foot pole because of his ugly looks. Yes, there are women that shallow, I've seen them. I do though agree with friedchiken that there also are some women who can not find you attractive at first, but then change her mind if you really show other good things about yourself, even if the good things don't even come close to the examples I listed above. But I do know that if a woman finds you unattractive at first and then you show her you got no confidence, then she really won't change her negative opinions about you, ya agree?
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Attraction is based on many things. If someone doesn't know you all they have is physical appearance and initial meet and greet. If say they had a shallow idea now they get a deeper side of you they realize they like. Attraction is not only apperence and not everyone judges on that either.
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You're right that appearance is the first thing women see whether they will start loving or hating what else they'll see as time goes on. The problem with the shallow women is if they don't like the first part, the appearance, they'll refuse to stick around and see what other great qualities you may or may not have. But the less shallow women realize that they could be missing out on finding out other great qualities, and they'll stick around a bit longer to see what they are. In a sense when put way, the shallow women are the less patient ones.
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So why are you bothering if you already know they are like this?
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Because I'm pretty sure what I'm saying is correct, but not 100% sure. I'm just trying to make myself completely sure.
I know that it took me two months to answer your last question, today's the first time I went back to this page since then. Lol.
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If you think this is correct then don't bother.