Yes. Imo you can only find somebody so attractive from looks alone. Personality to me will either make you look a lot more attractive or very unnatractive no matter what you look like. I'd never be with somebody just because of looks alone. You need to be beautiful inside and out
That's good because I was hoping that answer came from a woman's view. It gives me more hope that when a woman acts all cold shoulder with me at first sight, I can now realize that there will still be a chance that she can start to like things about me if I play it right. Before, I kept tending to think that when a woman looks at me cold from the get go, that would be it with her no matter what.
Not always from what I've seen. There are some women shallow enough that if she sees a man really unattractive, she will never become attracted to him even if she sees that he is the most smooth, confident, good sense of humored guy, she sees that he makes 7 figures a year, and she also sees that he is both the most badass guitar player and best football quarterback. If she sees that the man has every single one of those things, she would still not touch him with a ten foot pole because of his ugly looks. Yes, there are women that shallow, I've seen them. I do though agree with friedchiken that there also are some women who can not find you attractive at first, but then change her mind if you really show other good things about yourself, even if the good things don't even come close to the examples I listed above. But I do know that if a woman finds you unattractive at first and then you show her you got no confidence, then she really won't change her negative opinions about you, ya agree?
Attraction is based on many things. If someone doesn't know you all they have is physical appearance and initial meet and greet. If say they had a shallow idea now they get a deeper side of you they realize they like. Attraction is not only apperence and not everyone judges on that either.
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Yes. Imo you can only find somebody so attractive from looks alone. Personality to me will either make you look a lot more attractive or very unnatractive no matter what you look like. I'd never be with somebody just because of looks alone. You need to be beautiful inside and out
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Are you a guy or woman Friedchicken?
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I'm a woman
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That's good because I was hoping that answer came from a woman's view. It gives me more hope that when a woman acts all cold shoulder with me at first sight, I can now realize that there will still be a chance that she can start to like things about me if I play it right. Before, I kept tending to think that when a woman looks at me cold from the get go, that would be it with her no matter what.
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That's how attraction works duh
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Not always from what I've seen. There are some women shallow enough that if she sees a man really unattractive, she will never become attracted to him even if she sees that he is the most smooth, confident, good sense of humored guy, she sees that he makes 7 figures a year, and she also sees that he is both the most badass guitar player and best football quarterback. If she sees that the man has every single one of those things, she would still not touch him with a ten foot pole because of his ugly looks. Yes, there are women that shallow, I've seen them. I do though agree with friedchiken that there also are some women who can not find you attractive at first, but then change her mind if you really show other good things about yourself, even if the good things don't even come close to the examples I listed above. But I do know that if a woman finds you unattractive at first and then you show her you got no confidence, then she really won't change her negative opinions about you, ya agree?
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Attraction is based on many things. If someone doesn't know you all they have is physical appearance and initial meet and greet. If say they had a shallow idea now they get a deeper side of you they realize they like. Attraction is not only apperence and not everyone judges on that either.