Can a relationship between a 19 year old F and a 30 year old M work?

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  • I honestly doubt it would work. Like SkullsNRoses said, she is at a completely different stage in life than you and has very little life experience due to barely being an adult, despite her level of maturity. What she is going through is completely different than you are, as well as life plans, goals, etc. (which will likely change in a teenager).

    Not to mention that IME, people often grow and change significantly in the years following the late teens. I know that at 25, I am nowhere near the same person I was at 18 or 19. None of my dreams, goals, or future plans are the same and have all drastically changed in ways I would've never imagined, and my personality and outlook on life are much different. As a result, I've grown apart from a lot of the people I was close to then and don't relate to them nearly as well as I used to. I think these big changes that occur after the teen years can create a lot of difficulty in a long term relationship as well (and is probably one of the reasons why high school sweethearts are increasingly rare).

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