Can a guy tell that you a have a "meaty vagina" by fingering you?

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I have a friend who thinks that she has a "meaty vagina", and to be honest I don't really even know what that is. But she's been wanting to be fingered, and there are several boys who have wanted to finger her. Even though she wants it REALLY bad she stops them because of her fear of having a "meaty vagina". So I guess you could say my question is...can a guy tell that your vagina is "meaty" by fingering you?

Please post comments keeping it real.. I don't need any dumb comments joking around or what not. Thank You! (: Your advice is MUCH NEEDED/APPERCIATED!

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    I'm stuck on the whole "meaty" vagina thing...I've fingered a girl who was quite open. I've fingered a girl who was average tightness/lip size, I've fingered a girl whom was really tight but had large lips (her clit took some digging through skin) and I've fingered a girl that was tough to get 2 fingers into...so if your friend doesn't qualify into any of those, I have no idea what she's talking about.

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    • Ksizzle
      12 years ago

      The girl who was really tight and her clit took some digging through skin..is I think what my friend is talking about.

      Did it bother you when you were fingering this girl? If you don't mind me asking..

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      • Gelmurag
        12 years ago

        Nope, didn't bother me at all. Actually I was in love with her but never got the chance to tell her. I think the whole being in love with her thing meant I didn't care what she had down there. But vaginas are vastly different from girl to girl anyway.

        Just like guys have different sized/shaped penises, and different sized balls. If your doing something sexual with someone, you should be past the point where it would bother you...

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        • Ksizzle
          12 years ago

          The reason I ask is because we've heard guys in our school say things like joking around using the words "meaty vagina" so I guess that's prolly why my friend is so worried. You know how things spread around at highschool..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I have no idea what she's on about but the vaginal passage is meant to feel slick and fleshy, considering it is flesh and produces fluid.

    But honestly, she should only have sexual activity if she wants it, is sure about it and is doing it with a guy who cares about her. You should tell her it doesn't matter how many guys finger her, it won't make them like her or want to date her, just use her.

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    Meaty. What a terrible word to use.

    Perhaps she has a large labia; I've heard men call them "meat curtains". Still a terrible name for a woman's parts.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I agree. I've even heard someone call it "Roast beef lips". I couldn't stop laughing at how ridiculous it was.

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  • l0lz
    12 years ago

    More cushion for the pushin' bby <333

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  • ksp86
    12 years ago

    i have fuller outer labia and a man once told me i was "meaty down there" and he meant it as a COMPLIMENT!!!! men, please, for the love of god, don't ever refer to any part of a woman as "meaty"... unless it's like.. her butt? and she's proud of it?.. idk. even then.. just avoid the word meaty, please. it's not sexy

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    • Ksizzle
      12 years ago

      My friend is really, really self concious of hers. If you don't mind me asking, are you?

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  • Ksizzle
    12 years ago

    Yeah she is really self conscious. Do you think she should just stay clear of this guy? Because he has hurt her so much even though he probablt dosen't even know it.

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  • Ksizzle
    12 years ago

    I think what my friend is worried about is making out with this boy and just not being able to control herself, to say no.. Because she likes this guy A LOT. You know when your doing something and it's just heat of the moment..

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  • Ksizzle
    12 years ago

    I asked her what she means by "meaty" and she says that her lips are larger? And that she may have a "beef curtin"? She wants to know if a guy can tell when they are fingering her? because the guy that she is with she does like..she just dosen't want him to think of her as "disgusting"?

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Maybe it smells like rotten meat....

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