Called my ex after one year breakup
When I broke up with my ex a year ago I avoided him as he was being obsessive to a point that my safety was questionable. Since then I have been seeing another guy (who was a proper twat) and we ended things. Lately I have been thinking about my ex and it was his birthday.
At that point I had no feelings for him but I really missed him as a friend/family. I called him anonymously and hung up without saying anything. Minutes later he called back (also anonymous). And then we started talking again, he said he still has feelings for me, he thinks about me everyday while I declared the opposite. I even told him about my last relationship. He suggested to meet up but I told him we will probably not meet again (at that point we both felt very emotional). He wished me well and said he has changed. He will leave me alone instead of being stalker-ish. I wished him happy birthday.
Since the phone call I've been thinking about him everyday. I really want to see him before he leaves the country for good. Thoughts? Would that be detrimental?