Being upset by what they have said is normal, and it's completely understandable. As much as you didn't want to hear what they said, I am sure they didn't want you to hear it just as much.
STanding up for yourself is good aslong as it's in a situation in which they are trying to clash with you, but if they are trying to just talk amongst friends about it, not wanting the person to hear what they are saying, then you should just carry on walking. Unless it has gotten to the point that they are trying to make everyone to think of you in a certain way, then just try walk away. Remember, some may think of you that way, some may think the opposite.
I myself have been talked about behind my back, and I was irritated, but I remembered that they are entitled to their opinions, just as I am for doing it to others, so I carried on walking.
Keep your head up, and don't let what people say put you down. Some people may believe what they were saying about you, and others will dissagree with what they said. None of us are perfect, everyone has this happen to them, so don't let yourself feel down for it.
I'll keep that in mind ^^ It doesn't really bother me, Since i found out the boy that started it all only did it because he had a huge crush on me and was trying to act cool XD Not exactly a thing that would impress me, And that he's not my type, Because everything is about him..Guess i'm not like other girls who rush to the boys side -Shrugs-
Bullied for my looks =(
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Being upset by what they have said is normal, and it's completely understandable. As much as you didn't want to hear what they said, I am sure they didn't want you to hear it just as much.
STanding up for yourself is good aslong as it's in a situation in which they are trying to clash with you, but if they are trying to just talk amongst friends about it, not wanting the person to hear what they are saying, then you should just carry on walking. Unless it has gotten to the point that they are trying to make everyone to think of you in a certain way, then just try walk away. Remember, some may think of you that way, some may think the opposite.
I myself have been talked about behind my back, and I was irritated, but I remembered that they are entitled to their opinions, just as I am for doing it to others, so I carried on walking.
Keep your head up, and don't let what people say put you down. Some people may believe what they were saying about you, and others will dissagree with what they said. None of us are perfect, everyone has this happen to them, so don't let yourself feel down for it.
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I'll keep that in mind ^^ It doesn't really bother me, Since i found out the boy that started it all only did it because he had a huge crush on me and was trying to act cool XD Not exactly a thing that would impress me, And that he's not my type, Because everything is about him..Guess i'm not like other girls who rush to the boys side -Shrugs-