I’m confused about how she was presumably with you for a few years and on a dime decides she’s not attracted to your genitalia. Was she under the impression that your post-transition penis would be indistinguishable from a cis man’s one?
Putting the bizzareness of the length of this relationship aside it’s not transphobic to not be attracted to someone’s genitals, attraction isn’t a choice we make.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation, being cheated on is heartbreaking and the fact it was with a cis man is understandably salt in the wound. I second the advice to go no-contact with your ex-wife as soon as it’s possible and heavily focus on yourself for a while. Good luck.
I don’t know honestly but i got over it already. I forget about things and don’t hold a grudge for too long. It’s all good. And about don’t have sex? Look I need sex to help my urges. I’m well a where about stds and after this hookup I’m going to the doctors to make sure. But yea testosterone heightens your libido so...after all of this is done I can finally focus on myself as you say.
I'm fine with trans adults, people do what they want.
But to be completly honest the amount of modification that a person has to do to transition i find to be some of the most unattractive additions (or subtractions) someone can do.
A testasterone induced large clitorus is beyond disgusting for me.
But I'm not fucking trans people so I really dont care about what other people do.
A testosterone induced clitorus looks like a minie penis. It’s just not phalo and can’t ejaculate. Can get erect but not to the extent to a cis guy.like standing all the way up. It mostly points down but can definitely get hard. I’m not saying you have to date us transmen but don’t be rude about it.
Yeah I didnt need a description, I know what they look like and it is unsightly and unnerving to some people. It's the truth. That level of modification is practically body horror for some of us.
No I'm an male with an extra X chromosome. Intersex. Not the same thing. Hell I'm more physically closer to the other sex than the majority of transgender people with their completely normal set of chromosomes. It's a mental disorder, its not a physical disorder.
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I’m confused about how she was presumably with you for a few years and on a dime decides she’s not attracted to your genitalia. Was she under the impression that your post-transition penis would be indistinguishable from a cis man’s one?
Putting the bizzareness of the length of this relationship aside it’s not transphobic to not be attracted to someone’s genitals, attraction isn’t a choice we make.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation, being cheated on is heartbreaking and the fact it was with a cis man is understandably salt in the wound. I second the advice to go no-contact with your ex-wife as soon as it’s possible and heavily focus on yourself for a while. Good luck.
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I haven’t got bottom surgery yet but have growth.
I don’t know honestly but i got over it already. I forget about things and don’t hold a grudge for too long. It’s all good. And about don’t have sex? Look I need sex to help my urges. I’m well a where about stds and after this hookup I’m going to the doctors to make sure. But yea testosterone heightens your libido so...after all of this is done I can finally focus on myself as you say.
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I'm fine with trans adults, people do what they want.
But to be completly honest the amount of modification that a person has to do to transition i find to be some of the most unattractive additions (or subtractions) someone can do.
A testasterone induced large clitorus is beyond disgusting for me.
But I'm not fucking trans people so I really dont care about what other people do.
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A testosterone induced clitorus looks like a minie penis. It’s just not phalo and can’t ejaculate. Can get erect but not to the extent to a cis guy.like standing all the way up. It mostly points down but can definitely get hard. I’m not saying you have to date us transmen but don’t be rude about it.
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Yeah I didnt need a description, I know what they look like and it is unsightly and unnerving to some people. It's the truth. That level of modification is practically body horror for some of us.
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I was under the impression that you are a transgender male?
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No I'm an male with an extra X chromosome. Intersex. Not the same thing. Hell I'm more physically closer to the other sex than the majority of transgender people with their completely normal set of chromosomes. It's a mental disorder, its not a physical disorder.
I didn’t mean not to have sex, I meant “ex”, I’ve corrected the typo.