@Zucchinipod: Thanks for your response. I spoke with my mom after getting through the Christmas cheer discussion and she pretty much said the same thing. This might sound ridiculous but I really wanted to wish my x-girlfriend well, but since I also realize how this would come across (today), I simply said a little prayer that things will be good for her and her daughter.
My best friend suggested that I follow my gut a couple weeks back and make the decision then. I agree that that would have been a more civil way of doing it. I wasn't disrespectful to her, I was simply honest and did not have the discussion in front of her daughter. I then simply left with as few words as possible.
Thanks for taking a moment out of your Christmas to respond.
Broke up...bad timing...wrong reasons...I just don't know
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@Zucchinipod: Thanks for your response. I spoke with my mom after getting through the Christmas cheer discussion and she pretty much said the same thing. This might sound ridiculous but I really wanted to wish my x-girlfriend well, but since I also realize how this would come across (today), I simply said a little prayer that things will be good for her and her daughter.
My best friend suggested that I follow my gut a couple weeks back and make the decision then. I agree that that would have been a more civil way of doing it. I wasn't disrespectful to her, I was simply honest and did not have the discussion in front of her daughter. I then simply left with as few words as possible.
Thanks for taking a moment out of your Christmas to respond.