Breakup after 8 years

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i have just broken up with my partner of 8 years i'm 54 so no youngster lol the reason we broke up is this ...she had a best friend before she met me but her friend ripped her off for £500 so they stopped seeing each other but spoke when they came across each other..the friend eventually paid the money back a bit at a time ...now over the last few months they have started seeing each other again ..my partner said that she has put it behind her and forgiven her ...which is her choice ...but over these lat few months everything has been based around her friend ..she started spending all her time with her and i felt i was being pushed to one side and treated like an option ..i said to my partner where has she been for the last 8 years through all the crap you have been through { bipolar} she said i don't want her to have friends and i don't like her friend and its all in my mind ...so the other day we had the same argument about her friend and i said i dont want to be in this relationship no more and she said neither do i so i unfriended her on facebook and then she blocked me and took me off whatsapp and we havent spoke for 3 weeks ...so my question is will she still think about me and care ? i mean i have my bad points like we all do but i treated her well and was always there for her

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  • herbadurr
    5 years ago

    i think you should talk to them about this, and how their actions made you feel and vice versa. even if it doesn't solve it, it may hopefully give you a sense of closure. if things like this happen often then maybe it's for the better. don't keep toxic people in your life.

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  • Iszzy123
    5 years ago

    She thinking of you like you are her this will hit when ur not part of her daly life

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      thank you i'm hoping so

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  • Nani9796
    5 years ago

    You guys are too old to mess with that, have a talk

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Wow! Maybe ya'll should have talked about your feelings before actually breaking up over all of this mess? Communication is so important!

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    Trying to control her friendship isn't "treating her well". How would you like it if she did the same to you?

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    • wizard1963uk
      5 years ago

      never tried controlling her friendship just reminded her she has a partner to

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      • Ellenna
        5 years ago

        Ending a relationship because of your partner's friendship is VERY controlling behaviour

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    you did what you had to do. live with it.

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