Breaking up with girlfriend because of her parents
Ok, I just started dating this girl about 4 weeks ago. I like her and everything but I am thinking I might have to break up with her because of her psycho parents. Here is why. I am 19, will be twenty in less than a month and she just turned 20, so we are both adults. We both still live at home however and her parents are the strictest parents I have ever heard of. She is not even allowed to go on "dates," which is bullsh*t. We work together by the way so the only time we get to see each other is when we work together or when I go over to her house, which is only about once a week and I hate it because we are not allowed to be alone. Her parents are in the room the entire time and we can't even so much as try to whisper to each other without her mom asking what we are talking about. For gods sake, we can't even hold hands without her mom saying something about it, like "we are moving too fast. " I don't use this word often but her mom is a grade A c*nt. She doesn't want her daughter coming over to my house without having met my parents first and my parents are busy so that hasn't happened, she did let her come over once but that was because it was her b-day. I feel mislead too because I asked her on a date and she said yes but never told me her mom wouldn't let that happen. She invited me over today and I really don't want to go. I know it sounds bad because she is a sweet girl but I feel like she isn't even my girlfriend because we aren't allowed to do couples things together, just sit at her house and listen to her b**ch mom talk about how great her parenting style is, it really doesn't feel like it is a relationship. She has talked about moving out but not until summer probably and I honestly can't wait it out that long. I know I am going to hurt her by telling her I can't be with her anymore because of her mom but from what she's told me she has had a couple of past bf's break up with her for the same reason so i don't think it will be a surprise. i don't know, is there any good way to break it to her or should I break up with her because I can't really do anything with her. any opinions?