Boyfriend wont stop lying to me

so my boyfriend of 7 months is lying to me.
ive known him for 2 years but we started off as friends, although hes always had feelings for me.
anyways, ive always been super honest with him about my sexual past, he probably knows too much because im an open book. he on the other hand has lied so many times about his past. he was a sugar daddy for awhile (even asked me when we were just friends) - at first he said i was the only one he asked, then i found out about another girl he gave over $500 dollars too. he swore on my life prior that he never gave money to anyone. i went on his computer last month and found DOZENS of text messages of him talking as a sugar daddy and giving them money
another thing he lied about was a matching tattoo he has with a friend, (shes a girl and they never dated) yet he still lies about it ( i found pics and messages of them talking about it)
another thing hes lied about is his body count. he says hes only had sex with 5 different people but ive found messages of him even nude photos of him getting head and sticking his dick in someone and it was way more than 2 other people (besides his ex"s) i also found a nude photo of a girl on his computer of a girl he still follows on instagram, hes tattooed her (that i knew) but he told me his friend hooked up with her and that they were never sexual. among some other things hes lied about.
i dont understand why hes lying about this stuff. its insane to me and idk if this is pathological lying behavior or if its normal to lie about your past? but hes swore on my life about things that i already knew the truth about.. and i just dont know what to do. he does love me and treats me good expect for the lies about his past. he also told me that hes never said i love you to his ex's that hes dated for over a year. idk. just weird. any advice or wisdom? please let me know,
sorry this was long.

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  • Somenormie

    If he is lying to you, break up with him for good.

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    • it’s not normal to lie about this stuff?

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  • Jamie_Sulky

    sounds lowkey sociopathic, or maybe hes a pathological liar. I think thats enough red flags for you to break up with him.

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    • why does it sound sociopathic?

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      • Jamie_Sulky

        Because it seems he feels no remorse for being constantly dishonest to their loved ones. I feel some level of remorse if I'm telling a lie (which, I don't even lie that much) even if its for a prank or something. If you've constantly found that real world evidence contradicts what he tells you, thats a red flag.

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  • lorbsdoesnthelp

    These are some serious red flags. Please take care of yourself. Repeated lies, especially about something as significant as this, are not good.

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    • so these aren’t normal things to lie about?

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  • RoseIsabella

    ¡¿WTF?! Why are you even still with this stupid lying sack of shit? The first time someone lies to you should be the last time that person lies to you. It's completely okay, and even normal to sever all ties with, and dump a liar! Liars are garbage, they are literally throw away people, and it's time to take out the trash!

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    • should i confront him about the pictures i’ve seen?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Nope, just dump him without any explanation, or start ghosting him.

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  • rocketdave

    Just dump, you don't need the head and heartaches he will bring you.

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    • why do you think he will bring my heartache?

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      • rocketdave

        Liars always, but always do, simples.

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        • what does this mean?

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  • DADNSCAL

    You need a new boyfriend. He doesn’t respect you, and never will.

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    • when i confronted him about something he lied to me about he told me he didn’t tell me bc he was embarrassed and doesn’t think his past matters

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      • DADNSCAL

        That’s a typical ploy from a serial abuser. He’ll lie to you until he hurts you, believe me.

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