Boyfriend with spoiled kids

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I have been dating a guy for a year and half. His four children have been extremely spoiled and it is really hard for me to be around them. I find them extremely annoying.

I am contemplating breaking up with my BF because I don't see any light at the end of the tunnel.

It is sad to me because I really like my BF but I also realize it is a package deal!

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  • Fuck.
    12 years ago | pl

    So what? How does that affect your relationship with him?

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago | pl

    As the above comment said, you weren't specific enough. How old are they, and how does he spoil them? Just think about it...if you marry him, you'll have to live with the kids. If you don't want that, the best choice would be to break up with him.

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  • ck38
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah, if you can't handle it, then no point pursuing. As you said it's a package deal. Have you spoken to your boyfriend about this? It also might be helpful to say how old the children are and do they live with him full time. There may be a way to make this work but not enough info

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      All kids live with him.
      15, 19, & 21 years old
      Spoils by giving them anything they ask for. I have never heard him say NO to a single thing.

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