@devila: Well the whole point here is that my bf and I just had that that talk about whether or not we actually have a future together because of this very issue.. As in deciding if we want to continue the relationship. If this were anyone else it would be an absolute dealbreaker.
So I kinda freaked out trying to imagine myself having children because it scares me to death. It doesn't seem like me at all to even consider it, but I don't want to lose this great relationship over something so far down the road. By then we'd have been together 10+ years and that's a lot of time to spend with the wrong person if something like this is going to be an issue.
Does that make any sense? After we had that talk I just kind of had a mini panic attack imagining so much crap going wrong in the future (including possibly losing him..ugh)...so I came here.
@everyone else: Thanks again for the help, I don't feel so insane anymore for having such a hard time processing this.
Boyfriend wants kids, I'm on the fence, IIN?
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@devila: Well the whole point here is that my bf and I just had that that talk about whether or not we actually have a future together because of this very issue.. As in deciding if we want to continue the relationship. If this were anyone else it would be an absolute dealbreaker.
So I kinda freaked out trying to imagine myself having children because it scares me to death. It doesn't seem like me at all to even consider it, but I don't want to lose this great relationship over something so far down the road. By then we'd have been together 10+ years and that's a lot of time to spend with the wrong person if something like this is going to be an issue.
Does that make any sense? After we had that talk I just kind of had a mini panic attack imagining so much crap going wrong in the future (including possibly losing him..ugh)...so I came here.
@everyone else: Thanks again for the help, I don't feel so insane anymore for having such a hard time processing this.