I'm sorry but I have mixed feelings on different sides on this. After I saw my first Playboy and then Porky's and stuff, I was MUCH more willing to be seen like that. When boyfriends wanted to take Polaroid's of me, I agreed. My only rule was they couldn't show my face at all. If they did, then I got them. Not sure what to do with mine, I just stashed my Polaroid's of me under my dresser.
My biggest worry was if my Dad saw them. My father found my stash under my dresser, but not until after I was married a few years. He surprised me by being pretty cool about it.
Anyways, after my husband saw my collection from before he met me, he insisted on making a collection of me of his own. We did. At first I kind of freaked when he started showing my photos off to his friends and brothers.
Maybe not for you, but for us, I reluctantly let him show off my photos to anyone he wants. When it comes to family, he mostly makes it look like an accident. No matter how he does it, I just don't want to be around when he does or know about it when it is happening. I do sometimes like to hear about their reactions afterwards, sometimes.
I think my father-in-law is about the only man on my husband's side that hasn't 'accidently' seen any nude photos of me. I'm sorry but I don't agree with all the negative thoughts on this. I don't really have much of a problem with your boyfriend. I'm not going to tell my husband but the truth is I wouldn't mind if my FIL saw them.
Good old Porkys and Playboy! The times have changed, I think its less about someone seeing you naked as it is about permission. I'm not shy at all, but if there is a violation of trust and a broken agreement between two people there is a problem.
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I'm sorry but I have mixed feelings on different sides on this. After I saw my first Playboy and then Porky's and stuff, I was MUCH more willing to be seen like that. When boyfriends wanted to take Polaroid's of me, I agreed. My only rule was they couldn't show my face at all. If they did, then I got them. Not sure what to do with mine, I just stashed my Polaroid's of me under my dresser.
My biggest worry was if my Dad saw them. My father found my stash under my dresser, but not until after I was married a few years. He surprised me by being pretty cool about it.
Anyways, after my husband saw my collection from before he met me, he insisted on making a collection of me of his own. We did. At first I kind of freaked when he started showing my photos off to his friends and brothers.
Maybe not for you, but for us, I reluctantly let him show off my photos to anyone he wants. When it comes to family, he mostly makes it look like an accident. No matter how he does it, I just don't want to be around when he does or know about it when it is happening. I do sometimes like to hear about their reactions afterwards, sometimes.
I think my father-in-law is about the only man on my husband's side that hasn't 'accidently' seen any nude photos of me. I'm sorry but I don't agree with all the negative thoughts on this. I don't really have much of a problem with your boyfriend. I'm not going to tell my husband but the truth is I wouldn't mind if my FIL saw them.
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Good old Porkys and Playboy! The times have changed, I think its less about someone seeing you naked as it is about permission. I'm not shy at all, but if there is a violation of trust and a broken agreement between two people there is a problem.