Boyfriend of 10 years cheated on me last night -- please help me

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I found out that my boyfriend of 10 years cheated on me last night -- he doesnt know that I know. We've been together since the end of our Sophomore year of HS and have been together since. We both lost our virginity to each other and have lived with each other the last year or so.

I don't want to leave him.. he's all Ive ever had and experienced..

What should i do? What should I tell him? Why would he do that?

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Time to sit down, and have a serious talk with him.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago | pl

    I bet you $100 right now this wasn't his first. Discuss if you want, anything from a three way or more way (orgie) or an open relationship. Maybe he's getting bored with the same old meat and potatoes. It's time to knock it up a notch.

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  • redeyez7
    5 years ago | pl

    wow.. that hurts. best thing to do is to talk to him.. and why he did that to you. he wouldn't like if you did that to him. but its upto you. it could be the first time you found out about this. he may have done this before.. i'm just saying. but u need to talk to him. be strong

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  • TheOishome
    5 years ago | pl

    That's so shit. He's a fucking dickhead for doing that to you, talk to him see what he says about it and although it'll be hard decide if you think you can stay with him and still be happy, or if you have to break up. Even if all you want is things to be the way they used to be before he fucked them up

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  • cipro
    5 years ago | pl

    Cheating happens. Search your feelings and decide whether u want to break up or stay together.
    Do communicate with him that u know of his infidelity.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Time to sit down, and have a serious talk with him.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago | pl

    Talk to him. Go from there.

    Must be rough, I'm sorry.

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