Could just be that he was fine with how things were. Generally I'd say that people just tend to be different. Not everybody is gonna be the way you expect them to be and as hard as it is - it's just something you need to bring up and talk about, especially if it's important to you. I know, I know - it sounds stupid and obvious, but that's unfortunately true. You can't expect things to change on their own and have to be the reason why things things change.
I mean, right now you're no longer together, so the best you can do is to stop thinking about it, as stupid as it might sound. What happened.. happened. You have to move on :/
Could of course just be that he didn't feel exactly the same way you did, which is why he didn't show much affection, but that's difficult to know / tell from a brief description on the internet.
Thank you..this was a really mature and respectful way to think about things. I think you're absolutely right. I should've talked about it more, just didn't know what to say. Thanks for the insight, gonna try to move on wish I could've fixed things sooner. :(
Boyfriend never shows affection or gives compliments? Is this normal?
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Could just be that he was fine with how things were. Generally I'd say that people just tend to be different. Not everybody is gonna be the way you expect them to be and as hard as it is - it's just something you need to bring up and talk about, especially if it's important to you. I know, I know - it sounds stupid and obvious, but that's unfortunately true. You can't expect things to change on their own and have to be the reason why things things change.
I mean, right now you're no longer together, so the best you can do is to stop thinking about it, as stupid as it might sound. What happened.. happened. You have to move on :/
Could of course just be that he didn't feel exactly the same way you did, which is why he didn't show much affection, but that's difficult to know / tell from a brief description on the internet.
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Thank you..this was a really mature and respectful way to think about things. I think you're absolutely right. I should've talked about it more, just didn't know what to say. Thanks for the insight, gonna try to move on wish I could've fixed things sooner. :(