Boyfriend has hiv and i still have sex with him?

Your boyfriend is stupid. I have a disease, a bone structure mutation, it carries out through genes. I will NEVER cum inside a woman, never having a child, and if I had HIV I would NEVER fuck a girl. Because I'm not fucking selfish.

Please tell me you use condoms!

Technically, you don't "have to have sex with him". I certainly wouldn't risk my life, because someone thinks no one would love or have sex with him. Misery loves company, and providing that company isn't worth risking my life.

This kind of codependency is deadly and not worth it.

Pretty fucking stupid.

If I had HIV I wouldn't even want sex because I wouldn't want to spread it. How selfish.

As I understand it, the risk of catching HIV from a person who is getting treatment for it is actually quite low, due to their much reduced viral load. So provided he is currently taking medication for it, than I don't think you're taking an unreasonable risk. But needless to say, condoms are still a really good idea.

But I have a feeling most people responding here aren't really up on current information.

Did he tell you he was HIV positive before you had sex with him?

"i have to have sex with him because he thinks that no one would love him and no one would want to have sex with him."

No. You don't. And are you giving him sex out of pity or is he peer pressuring you? I honestly feel like you're just doing it for the first part.

Either way there's this word called, "No." Works like magic.

Have you ever stopped to think "Hey what if it doesn't work out with this guy?'. Your damaged goods now. I pity you and your dirty selfish boyfriend.

I dont know if i would have sex with him, granted if i trully loved someone u would have sex with them even if they had hiv but otherwise uh i wouldnt not even with a condom

he is selfish and you are a big fool

This is pretty stupid. You should not be having sex with this person. Maybe if he didn't want to feel this way he should of taken better precautions himself.

Plus it sounds like he is just saying those things to get you to sleep with him. What happens if when he's done with you he leaves and you've contracted the disease?

So sweet of you but take uttermost precautions.

... And then when you two break up you'll be in the same situation as him! Wait til you KNOW you're gonna stick with this guy- as in after a marriage proposal at least! You're sweet, but you really have to consider your future and not just his feelings.

I wouldn't risk it but whatever.

People, is not like you are gonna get HIV just by having sex. You know, they invented condoms for a reason. Just be sure to use it every time, even for oral sex, and ensure it's a non-expired good quality condom of the right size. Then you can have all the sex you want.

Everything about this is bad. Even if he didn't have HIV he's only using you.