Boyfriend hardly says yes or no!?

My boyfriend almost never answers any question with a yes or no answer. He usually just says "I don't care" or it doesn't matter. For example I'll ask him if he wants to go for a walk or to the movies or something and he'll just say I don't care. It makes me think that he really just doesn't want to but just won't say it. I am always the one suggesting places when we go out bc he hardly ever will, he knows that I'm open to his suggestions bc anytime he has suggested anything I've been game.

He does this when we are going out to eat too. I'll suggest somewhere and he'll just be like it doesn't matter. But then if we're arguing about something totally irrelevant, he'll turn around and say that I never wanna go to the places that he wants to like restaraunts when he's the one that never says yes or no or even suggests anything!

I understand that yes or no is not always needed, but like I said he does this all the time and it's really starting to annoy me, especially when he trys to turn it around on me as I stated above. Also I don't want to have to make all the desicions when it comes to everything, I feel like in a relationship it should be 50/50. I've tried talking to him about when he does it but he seems to think there's nothing wrong with it.

Is it normal for people to be like that? And is it normal for this to bug me so much?

Is It Normal?
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  • He sounds like a faggot

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  • I think it's normal. I think he just wants to agree with you whatever you want to do, so YOU don't feel pressured into doing something you don't want. When my girlfriend asks me something I usually say it's up to you or "if you want". Even if I don't want to do it but usually I do. To me it seems like he's happy with whatever he does so it doesn't make a bit of difference if you see a movie or not. Relax!

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  • He seems like a boring person. Why are you with him lol

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  • Dump that sucker and go out with me

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  • Fucking douche

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  • my bf does that too, it's called being a pushover. guys who do this usually have less testosterone, are less assertive, wishy washy and indecisive. if it bothers you find another man cuz this type of man will never change from being a beta male to an alpha male.

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  • Sounds like u guys are in a rut.

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  • My bf does this too! It's sooo annoying. Bf's totally suck sometimes!!

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  • Totally annoying! Maybe try it on him and see how he likes it. Every time he asks u something use one of his comments back to him. It will annoy him faster than it annoyed u and he will the see how annoying it is!! Had a bf like this and it drove me mad in the end

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