Boyfriend didn't invite me to his friend's party
I have been with my boyfriend for a year. He is loving and caring. However, our relationship has a lot obstacles due to the fact that we are in an interracial relationship and with families involved, it's quite stressful. We are even discussing marriage. I have met his best friends and all that but not his parents.
My boyfriend's friend from law school just opened up his own firm and there is a party tomorrow. We are driving there tomorrow even though it's 2 hours away. Initially, my boyfriend didn't invite me to the actual party, he said that I would just stay at the hotel and then we would explore the town the next day. His reasoning for not inviting me was that he felt that I would be uncomfortable because of language barriers as well as the fact that most of the people would be old men. I am black and he is korean. We live in Korea and only a small number of people speak English, I cannot speak korean. I wasn't too thrilled about not being invited, at the very least he could have invited me and if I had declined then it would be another story. It just hurts that he went out of his way to not even invite me.
Tonight, out of the blue he said actually he wants me to come, he spoke to his friend and apparently by the time we get there most of the old guys will be gone. I am actually so putt off by the whole fiasco, I don't even want to attend anymore. I think he's only inviting me out of guilt. Am I being unreasonable for refusing to go to the party?