Thank you soomuch for the very helpful advice . Yes it is mind over "fecal matter" I wish I had a strong mind and really let my mind do the action, then I wouldn't have this horrible habit. It really is some mind if sick action. Everyone of us are sick in some different way and it all just comes out in your physical selves sometimes. Sometimes it's. an emotional issue that comes out in my straining. Not being able to really feel like forgiving a person . I mean really forgiving them not just saying in words "I forgave him already " but really knowing how it feels to truly forgive someone ,coming from your heart, someone who wronged you a long time ago as you have almost erased the feeling as it was long ago and I guess never felt how it really feels to forgive a person. If you know what I mean... It can take a lot if guts and compassion for a human being to forgive as we are not saints, as obviously we are not perfect.so it would be easy for me to say I don't know how it feels to forgive as I am just human.ususlly the person would naturally say, why should I forgive him?? After what he did! It's unforgivable! But then I'm always reminded about how important forgiveness is when I go to mass on Sundays.its the feeling of humbling yourselves for someone that has hurt you. Well that was the sermon in my mass today which I thought gave me enlightenment and relief.thxnks for your advise! That is so helpfull ! It's like your advising to retrain the way you use your body.thank you.
Bowel movement experience? IIN?
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Thank you soomuch for the very helpful advice . Yes it is mind over "fecal matter" I wish I had a strong mind and really let my mind do the action, then I wouldn't have this horrible habit. It really is some mind if sick action. Everyone of us are sick in some different way and it all just comes out in your physical selves sometimes. Sometimes it's. an emotional issue that comes out in my straining. Not being able to really feel like forgiving a person . I mean really forgiving them not just saying in words "I forgave him already " but really knowing how it feels to truly forgive someone ,coming from your heart, someone who wronged you a long time ago as you have almost erased the feeling as it was long ago and I guess never felt how it really feels to forgive a person. If you know what I mean... It can take a lot if guts and compassion for a human being to forgive as we are not saints, as obviously we are not perfect.so it would be easy for me to say I don't know how it feels to forgive as I am just human.ususlly the person would naturally say, why should I forgive him?? After what he did! It's unforgivable! But then I'm always reminded about how important forgiveness is when I go to mass on Sundays.its the feeling of humbling yourselves for someone that has hurt you. Well that was the sermon in my mass today which I thought gave me enlightenment and relief.thxnks for your advise! That is so helpfull ! It's like your advising to retrain the way you use your body.thank you.