"For those unmarried people (like BF/GF) who use it are saying "I like you enough to have sex with you, but not enough to possibly have a kid with you"."
Well yeah. Obviously. Having sex without kids is attached to responsibility of several hours lying in bed afterwards, having sex with kids is attached to a responsibility 9 months of fun fun pregnancy and 18 years of fun fun child-rearing and fun fun no more money or free time. *I* would be offended if someone cheapened that responsibility by expecting me to go through with that 18 year long commitment with them.
bananaface has, as usual, said everything I wanted to say which is because she's great.
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"For those unmarried people (like BF/GF) who use it are saying "I like you enough to have sex with you, but not enough to possibly have a kid with you"."
Well yeah. Obviously. Having sex without kids is attached to responsibility of several hours lying in bed afterwards, having sex with kids is attached to a responsibility 9 months of fun fun pregnancy and 18 years of fun fun child-rearing and fun fun no more money or free time. *I* would be offended if someone cheapened that responsibility by expecting me to go through with that 18 year long commitment with them.
bananaface has, as usual, said everything I wanted to say which is because she's great.