Bfs friends never consider me/ include me

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my bfs friends are all like 30+ and i’m almost 20. my bf used to include me a lot when he would hangout with them, now it’s been months since i’ve seen them last and almost 7 months since i’ve been over to one of their houses. they all go out to bars and clubs on the weekend. my bf only goes out 1-2 times a month MAYBE. sometimes less. anyways, they were talking about going out to a bar / club for new years that i can’t get into. they never take into consideration oh maybe **** girlfriend might want to come, let’s find a place she can get into... and go out after if he wants to stay with her. but no. they don’t give a fuck and it annoys the shit out of me and i’m basically forced to get an ID if i ever wanna go out with them. their in their late 30’s and my bf is late 20’s. it’s just annoying and immature and idk what to do

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Let's look at the situation. You are 19. Your bf is late 20's and his friends are in their 30's. I would cut bait and go fishing somewhere else......OR.... tough it out and wait until you reach the age where you can get into the bars.

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  • Rictictavie
    5 years ago

    Break up.

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  • cockwanter
    5 years ago

    No, he should have more consideration for you. He married you, not them. Maybe its just my opinion, but sounds like you need to have a talk with him about this. Seems your feelings are being ignored.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      we aren’t married

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    Yea, tell him to include you or tell him to fuck off.

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  • Averageasfuck
    5 years ago

    I could relate if I had friends

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    You have to accept, even if don't like it, that they're older and of-age to go out to a bar or someplace that ID's, and, you're not. You knew this going into the relationship. They'd invite you if you weren't an "extra consideration", as in, you'd have to get fake ID and risk making them look bad.

    If you want to be with him, talk to him about this issue. In my own case, a bit opposite of yours (my guy friends always ask about my beautiful, hot gf, where is she, etc...which pisses me off at times), I've talked to her about things she thinks are "in fun", when they really come off as flirty and making them think she's available, and why the guys always want her around. Have also talked to 2 of the guys about it, explained the situation, and taken the upper hand when we're around them. If your bf does the same, he's choosing you over them.

    Talked to one of the guys one night at the sports bar we go to, and flat-out told him...Don't be a dick, or I'll spill all of your own dirty little secrets, the drug use with the younger bartenders, etc. In short, any interest you may have in her, even joking around, forget it.

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