bf wants an open relationship now

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago | pl

    in what ways am i being used? he is in love with me but at this point in his life he doesn’t want to have anything exclusive

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    • Azaman
      5 years ago | pl

      Open relationships can work for two people who have agreed on boundaries and who actually communicate with each other. This doesn’t sound like that. If he is “in love” with you, why wouldn’t he want to be exclusive? I’m not gonna speculate too much, as I don’t know you or the situation. But something is already clearly wrong if you’re coming to this site to ask strangers rather than just asking him what ‘open relationship’ means to him. “Going out to dinner” and “hanging out” with other people is not what defines an open relationship.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago | pl

      That sounds like you are making excuses for him. How old are you guys?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago | pl

        27 & 19

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago | pl

          Um hmm... Just as I suspected.

          Whose idea was it to get back together? Are you going to be going out with other guys too, or is it just gonna be him running around?

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            5 years ago | pl

            it was his idea but at this point in his life he wants it to be open for now. and idk when he goes out if he fucks someone it wouldn’t be a big deal and idk i probs won’t cuz idc that much about fuckig other pol

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago | pl

              Well, that's just what I thought.

              So who's idea was it for ya'll to get back together?

              You're free to do and participate in whatever you want, but it hurts you and makes you happy don't say that no one ever warned you.

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