Bf thinks i’m lying but i’m not

11% Normal

so my bf asked if i deleted a girl off of his snapchat and i didn’t so i said no. (i have a prior history of doing so though) so she must of deleted him. i asked why and he said because she added me back on snapchat and i never deleted her. it totally looks like i did so i later ended up confessing to it just so he would stop accusing me because he was about to text her and ask if she did. i knew she did, but was scared she would say she didn’t anyways. idk it’s a whole mess. and now he’s accusing me of deleting her because she messaged him and that’s what prompted me to deleting her. i said no to that but still stuck with the claim that i deleted. should i of not said i did if i didn’t? i didn’t know how to get him to shut up about it and i was scared she would be like, “what no i didn’t delete you!” even though she obviously did because i didn’t do it. ugh! what do you think about this? i feel bad for lying about doing so but i felt like it would end the discussion about it. they also never talk she’s like married now. i have no idea why she would delete him and add him back

Voting Results

11% Normal

Based on 9 votes (1 yes)

Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!

[ Report Post ]

Comments ( 31 )

Primus

4 years ago | pl

You confessed to something you didn’t do, and that’s where you fucked up. She might have deleted and added him back because of her husband, but if your boyfriend doesnt believe you when you tell him you didn’t do something to his phone, youve got yourself a relationship issue.

Comment Hidden ( show )

8

8
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  so what should i do
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
Ellenna

4 years ago

Why are you in a relationship where you're scared to tell the truth?

Comment Hidden ( show )

5

5
- RoseIsabella
  
  4 years ago
  
  That's exactly what I was thinking.
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  1
  
  1
  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    4 years ago
    
    because i was scared he would text her and ask “did you delete me” and she would say, “no???” even though she clearly did. idk that was my worry so i just admitted to it to end that scenario
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    0
    
    0
    - RoseIsabella
      
      4 years ago
      
      It's not a good idea to be with someone you feel like you have a lie to about random stuff.
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      4
      
      4
    - Ellenna
      
      4 years ago
      
      I'm asking again, why are you in a relationship where you are scared to tell the truth?
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      0
      
      0
      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        i’m not sure. i overthink things
        
        Comment Hidden ( show )
        
        0
        
        0
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  because he wouldn’t believe me
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
SkullsNRoses

4 years ago

So you falsely confessed to deleting her because you were scared that if she lied to him that you deleted her your boyfriend would believe her over you?

So you don’t trust him (as you delete girls off his snapchat) and he doesn’t trust you either. You both sound exhausting and shouldn’t be together.

Comment Hidden ( show )

3

3
jethro

4 years ago

Is this your first boyfriend? Why are you desperate to hang onto him? It sounds like your relationship is more troublesome than it is worth. I would suggest that you break up and find someone who nurtures you and someone who you can be more comfortable with. Things will get much better after you turn 13.

Comment Hidden ( show )

3

3
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  i’m 20 and he’s 28. no he’s not my first boyfriend
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
  - jethro
    
    4 years ago
    
    Wow. That make you appear even more desperate than I imagined. I'm at a loss for words now. I figured that you were like 12 years old by the scenario that you painted. But to actually be 20 and 28 makes me want to shake my head. I guess you should two hang onto each other because you seem to deserve each other.
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    0
    
    0
    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      what is he doing wrong?
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      0
      
      0
Boojum

4 years ago

My head hurts. 🙄

Comment Hidden ( show )

3

3
- leggs91200
  
  4 years ago
  
  Hey this social media crap is very important to the new generation.
  BTW, can you spare a couple of those Tylenol tablets?
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  1
  
  1
[Old Memory]

4 years ago

Pfff, well that's silly, why did you tell him you did it? You actually lied about not lying.

Comment Hidden ( show )

2

2
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  because i was scared if i told him i didn’t delete her, he would text and ask and she would say she didn’t. idk, confessing to it just seemed like the answer that would end this conflict..
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
Sarajeremy

4 years ago

Sounds like this girl is more important to him than you.

Comment Hidden ( show )

1

1
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  why?
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
citrusflavor122

4 years ago

fk that sht. Leave him if he acts like that. If you don't have trust, what do you have? You're not the fool, he is. Don't let him control you like this. You deserve more.

Comment Hidden ( show )

0

0
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  why is he the fool and how is he controlling me? you don’t think i did anything wrong?
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
bbrown95

4 years ago

Like others have already said, you messed up by confessing to something you didn't do, and there's a lack of trust between both of you, which is a pretty big issue in your relationship.

Comment Hidden ( show )

0

0
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  so what should i do? we haven’t texted all day.
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
  - bbrown95
    
    4 years ago
    
    You might start by telling him the truth. It might be pretty confusing since you've already confessed to it, but tell him exactly what you're telling us.
    
    This part is completely up to you, but if I were you I'd rethink this relationship or at least make an attempt to work on the trust issues together.
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    0
    
    0
    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      so what should i start doing right now? should i ignore him and wait for him to text me
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      0
      
      0
      - bbrown95
        
        4 years ago
        
        Just go ahead and text him. See what he says.
        
        Comment Hidden ( show )
        
        0
        
        0
        
        -
        
        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        text who?
        
        Comment Hidden ( show )
        
        0
        
        0
        
        See More Comments =>

Are You Normal?

Bf thinks i’m lying but i’m not