Bf says that if i cheated on him he wouldn’t break up with me

is this normal? my bf said he wouldn’t break up with me if i cheated... he’d be mad and upset but wouldn’t break up with me... but he wouldn’t do that to me bc he knows how i feel about it and i certainly would be done with him.... i just don’t really know how to think. it’s kinda weird

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Comments ( 14 )
  • BriannaLjay

    He must love you a lot. Just means his love in unconditional. But of course don’t try it out and see if he really will stay 😂

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  • jethro

    If you cheated on me, you would be gone like last week's paycheck.

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    • ILIKEMEXICANGIRLS

      lol cause a fucking xmas

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      • jethro

        Huh...Say what?

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        • ILIKEMEXICANGIRLS

          you spend alot a money for christmas so you got it was gone quickly? right?

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  • rayb12

    He says this because he wants you to not feel like he is controlling. And for himself is trying to show off how 'chill' he is. Don't think about it, if it actually happens he has no idea how he would react. Its just words

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    • thanks! idk... he’s not christian and so he looks at the world differenty.. he thinks humans purpose is to like reproduce and so temptation is hard and he gets it...?

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      • rayb12

        Most people aren't Christian. I still think that he is trying to appear not clingy or desperate but is doing so to an unnecessary degree. Nothing to worry about 😊

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  • Justmehere

    If he means it, then..BF is a moron. Nobody should have to deal with their bf or gf cheating on them. It's not controlling..It's respect.

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  • Ellenna

    I wouldn't count on that: it's impossible for anyone to know in advance how they'd feel about being cheated on

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  • JonathanOo

    I wouldn't either unless your a bad girl. I'd give you many chances because its hard to find a great lady to be with forever

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  • Blabla123

    I'm female and I wouldn't mind cheaters, is that normal :/

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  • Boojum

    It's nothing to get bent out of shape over, but nor should you take it as an invitation to mess around.

    It does seem like he's trying to appear mature and rational (and maybe he is just that). Maybe he's saying that he doesn't view you as a possession which would be ruined by contact with another guy. Maybe he's just very secure about who he is and his value as a person, and so he wouldn't take you doing that as an enormous personal insult.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If someone cheats on me his dead to me.

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