I think it was nice of him to talk about it to you. I think he's right with this "he said that it is selfish of me to ask him to only fuck me for the rest of his life. and that sex is a merely physical thing." Just support him on this one, that would be my advice.
i’m really surprised you agree with my boyfriend on this one. did i mention we’ve been in a committed/exclusive relationship for 15 months now???? he’s always told me that guys have urges and wanna fuck as many women as they can. but why does that warrant an excuse to fuck other people ?
He's poly and doesn't even know it. It's not an excuse. You and your bf are so focused on who is right and wrong, but when it comes to the relationship, you both are right, but wrong for each other and too stubborn to see it.
Cheaters cheat, they won't talk to you about their intentions first, they just do it; believe me. All these people telling you he's cheating have no edvience to it, and just fueling your paranoia.
What's happening is, you're monogamous. That's great, but you're dating someone who likes the idea of "Free Love"; basically having sex with whomever.
You two are wrong for eachother.
You two will hurt each others' feelings.
You can't change each other, stop trying.
why isn’t anyone listening to me. HES NOT GUNNA HAVE SEX WITH WHOMEVER. has hasn’t cheated, he would tell me. he tells me he doesn’t like lying to me, that’s why he told me about this. what i am saying is is that if he were to have sex with someone else he wouldn’t want me breaking up with him over it
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what??? he’s not sleeping with anyone else!!! all he said is that if he WERE TO he wouldn’t want me to break up with him over it. and he’d ask me
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I think it was nice of him to talk about it to you. I think he's right with this "he said that it is selfish of me to ask him to only fuck me for the rest of his life. and that sex is a merely physical thing." Just support him on this one, that would be my advice.
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Good luck :)
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i’m really surprised you agree with my boyfriend on this one. did i mention we’ve been in a committed/exclusive relationship for 15 months now???? he’s always told me that guys have urges and wanna fuck as many women as they can. but why does that warrant an excuse to fuck other people ?
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He's poly and doesn't even know it. It's not an excuse. You and your bf are so focused on who is right and wrong, but when it comes to the relationship, you both are right, but wrong for each other and too stubborn to see it.
Cheaters cheat, they won't talk to you about their intentions first, they just do it; believe me. All these people telling you he's cheating have no edvience to it, and just fueling your paranoia.
What's happening is, you're monogamous. That's great, but you're dating someone who likes the idea of "Free Love"; basically having sex with whomever.
You two are wrong for eachother.
You two will hurt each others' feelings.
You can't change each other, stop trying.
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why isn’t anyone listening to me. HES NOT GUNNA HAVE SEX WITH WHOMEVER. has hasn’t cheated, he would tell me. he tells me he doesn’t like lying to me, that’s why he told me about this. what i am saying is is that if he were to have sex with someone else he wouldn’t want me breaking up with him over it
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What? I was giving the definition of Free Love within the same sentence, calm yourself.
LEAVE HIM!
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you don’t even know our relationship. i told you one problem.
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He's asking you to cheat. He might've already done so.
I don't need to know it! This is a MAJOR problem! Girl you don't need any other problems because this is massive