Bf says all guys lie to girls

My boyfriend says that if your man says to you, “you’re the only person I think about baby” their lying... because men are here to “spread their seed” and that they think about other women and if a guy tells you it’s easy to be in a relationship their not being honest with you and that it is actually very hard... I tell him that’s not true and not all guys are like you and he doesn’t believe me

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  • I only think about my wife and don't give two shits about any other women

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  • edwininthematrix

    if he rich then stay with him. otherwise, if he goes through with his plans of knocking up several women, the law will make him pay child support for every kid until they turn 18. if he doesn't have that kind of money he'll go broke real fast and end up a dirty bum on the street or get his butt thrown in jail.

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    • EccentricWeird

      he rich... in the D! LOL

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  • Boojum

    This sounds to me like a combination of projection and justification:

    "I'm a horny dog who wants to screw every half-hot girl I see, and all the guys I hang with are like that, so therefore all men are are like that. And, anyway, I've read somewhere that guys are hard-wired to think like that, and how can you argue with nature?"

    In fact, not all guys are like him, but he has now told you what's going on in his head, and you'd be stupid not to take that into account when considering your future.

    Your boyfriend is right about one thing: relationships aren't easy. They're particularly difficult when the people are young and still trying to figure out who they are, what they need from life, and who they want to be with. If one of the people is a young man with raging hormones and a head full of all sorts of conflicting ideas about masculinity and how a man should behave, that makes things even harder.

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    • So when he talks about this again what should i do

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      • Yikes12

        Dump himmm.

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  • Mostly true. Unfortunately, morality is an extremely rare thing to find in our world.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    He's just trying to make excuses for his own shitty behaviour by saying it's something that all men do.

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    • TRU. But idk how to say that without me sounding rude

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      • Boojum

        Why are you concerned about sounding rude?

        He's basically told you that he expects you to excuse his behavior if he screws around, because that's just his nature.

        Flip it around: how would you expect him to react if you told him you were checking out other guys all the time and fantasized about them?

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  • chickenshit

    Hes right because hes a liar himself

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    • What

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      • chickenshit

        All guys lie *he says* and then theres him lying

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        • Are you a guy

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          • chickenshit

            yaaa

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  • jethro

    I would get a new boyfriend if I were you.

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    • Why

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      • jethro

        Remember that answer when he dumps you for another girl so's he can spread his seed around. Someone should put some chlorine in his gene pool.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Isn't it obvious?

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  • LeDentist

    I lie to people when I tell them I’ll extract one tooth and then get carried away and extract several instead.

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  • Fetiza000

    Those quotes about what they say to the girls are obviously not meant to be taking completely seriously. They are clearly just meant to be flirtatious.

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  • Yes, all guys think about other women sexually, which is what I'm assuming you mean, just as women do with other guys. It's normal.

    It doesn't mean that all men or women will act on these thoughts due to their love for who they are with.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If that's not a narcissist then I dunno what is... And believe me, I know!

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    • How is he

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      • RoseIsabella

        He is a narcissist, because he's very selfish, and thinks the whole world revolves around him. He has no accountability, and has so many damn excuses for everything. I mean really, sure there may be some truth to what he's said, but who the fuck does he think he is that he thinks he can speak for all men. I bet he never admits when he's wrong about something.

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  • Seahawksfan56

    Biology is a moot point. Were not out here knocking up random women. This isn't Animal Planet. A lot of animals are monogamous. It makes sense to have all your kids with one woman if you want your genes to spread. That way you can help them come up properly and go on to have kids of their own. Monogamy is to most a biological drive that comes naturally. Not that there's anything wrong with the alternative. It's just not for everyone as he says it is. Women have just as much a desire to propagate their genes. So whatever way you feel any man can feel on the matter.

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    • Seahawksfan56

      Your boyfriend very likely stayed up late last night and saw some documentary. But as a person that has read many volumes on natural selection and biology, I honestly conclude the human biological imperative is to find one woman with the perfect hips to birth all your children so you can together give them the best environment, to go on to do the same. Also, tell him a stranger told you, the use of science to justify social change was a fad of the 80s that was left in the 80s. Even Dawkins said it. Also the prophet Darwin himself had 10 children, all with one woman. Talk about propagating genes.

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      • What did Dawkins believe ?

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        • Seahawksfan56

          Dawkins was and is an atheist. What he believes is not as important and what he observes. Its the main point of science. He did write a book on biology which was misinterpreted at the time as being a guide to life, and had to say that as a scientist.l, he does not provide moral guidance, just observations on phenomena.

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      • Okay cool. Thanks. What’s propagating genes ? And anything else ?

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        • Seahawksfan56

          Propagating genes, is making sure that your biological material exists after you are gone. It is a biological drive, but it's plain to see, the family is the way to go. Not that we need go so far. It's for the most part a natural drive to a lot. Why would we do anything other than what we were biologically driven to do. Science observes, it doesn't dictate.

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          • So what exactly should I tell him...? Without reading your posts. How should I word it? I wanna sound smart. Also are you a guy?

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            • Seahawksfan56

              "Look, I am not trying to have the worlds first post-modern relationship. What I need now is to love and be loved wholeheartedly. It's a need that can be observed in lesser mammals, too." Is what I would tell a woman that jumped out with that.

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            • Seahawksfan56

              Yeah, I'm a guy. Tell him what you feel. If that's that you believe it should be easy, if he values you. Tell him that. If that's I see your point, glad you made the effort, tell him that. If that's we should have an open relationship, tell him that. If that's, "aight buddy separate your interest in science. From your life as it shapes itself"(my opinion) tell him that.

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