Again...with another post? Hun... How about this, I'll tell you my story.
I'm transgender and have known for a LONG time, but when I was 19 and was still trying my best to hide and do the man thing I met a girl in college. I thought she was wonderful. Now...she threw up some similar red flags, oh I need guy friends, etc etc and I never minded at all. I never drove any of her friends away and tried my best to be nice to them all the time, meanwhile she actively told me she didn't want me hanging around girls.
A bit different than you suggest your boyfriend would be but I know who you are and by how he talks to and treats you and I can tell you honestly if you showed up with a cute guy friend...he'd have a BIG problem with it...unless...He actually wanted to get rid of you or as someone else put it, he didn't care about you.
Anyway, back to the story...so several years go by and I trusted her...I told her about everything and she decides to keep me on a short leash while demanding her freedom and then one day...she slips up and accidentally admits she has fucked around on me...and later after some talking that she did it more than once.
The person that demanded access to friends of the opposite sex had been screwing her "friends" behind my back...off and on for over seven years...
I know my ex isn't your boyfriend but he doesn't sound like a good guy just based on how he's treated you...I would not expect him to be a good guy around other girls...
bf randomly springs on me that he wants female friends
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Again...with another post? Hun... How about this, I'll tell you my story.
I'm transgender and have known for a LONG time, but when I was 19 and was still trying my best to hide and do the man thing I met a girl in college. I thought she was wonderful. Now...she threw up some similar red flags, oh I need guy friends, etc etc and I never minded at all. I never drove any of her friends away and tried my best to be nice to them all the time, meanwhile she actively told me she didn't want me hanging around girls.
A bit different than you suggest your boyfriend would be but I know who you are and by how he talks to and treats you and I can tell you honestly if you showed up with a cute guy friend...he'd have a BIG problem with it...unless...He actually wanted to get rid of you or as someone else put it, he didn't care about you.
Anyway, back to the story...so several years go by and I trusted her...I told her about everything and she decides to keep me on a short leash while demanding her freedom and then one day...she slips up and accidentally admits she has fucked around on me...and later after some talking that she did it more than once.
The person that demanded access to friends of the opposite sex had been screwing her "friends" behind my back...off and on for over seven years...
I know my ex isn't your boyfriend but he doesn't sound like a good guy just based on how he's treated you...I would not expect him to be a good guy around other girls...