Bf lied about going to a massage place

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so i have my bf on find friends and he doesn’t know. i saw he was at a massage place kinda by my house earlier today. i was confused bc he said he was going shopping... i freaked out & told my best friend and she staged a text saying “hey i saw ur bf by a massage place” i showed him and he sent he went on the way back and didn’t go in cuz it was $80... but it showed he was there for an hour!!! why did he lie? what do i do

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  • Miraak
    5 years ago | pl

    Firstly, stop keeping track of him because that's creepy as hell.
    Secondly, he's cheating on you because you're creepy as hell.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago | pl

    If you have to track him just to trust him, you shouldn't be his girlfriend in the first place.

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  • factcheck
    5 years ago | pl

    "Staged a text" is a fancy way of saying you lied to him. Why do you have him on find friends without him knowing? That's an extreme violation of his privacy and trust.

    This is not a normal, healthy relationship. There are bigger issues here than him lying about getting a massage.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      what are the bigger issues

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  • NashamaTheWeird
    5 years ago | pl

    Ok, so you stalked him and he probably cheated on you. Sounds like a lovely relationship.

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  • neopithair
    5 years ago | pl

    Stop keeping creepy tabs on your boyf... hire a private investigator instead! Way less creepy

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  • insanebotv21
    5 years ago | pl

    He lied cause he knew you'd freak out or he's insecure about doing something predominantly seen as feminine.

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  • insanebotv21
    5 years ago | pl

    He lied cause he knew you'd freak out or he's insecure about doing something predominantly seen as feminine.

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  • Kevinevan
    5 years ago | pl

    Yeah, this is why it's best not to lowjack your boyfriend.

    Start practicing your blowjobs and anal and get your freak on cause you obviously aint that great in bed honey.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      what? no...? what do they do? he said they didn’t even get a massage..

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      • Kevinevan
        5 years ago | pl

        Of course he didn't get a "massage". I guess it depends where you live as to what they do in those places but where I'm from they are a front for illegal services.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          do you think he got one and lied? what should i do

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          • Ellenna
            5 years ago | pl

            What you could do is take a long hard look at why you're with him when you mistrust him to the extent you stalk and deceive him. You need to be single for a while and get some therapy for your paranoia

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          • Kevinevan
            5 years ago | pl

            As they say, fruit of the poison tree. Your knowledge came from shady, fucked up methods so he skates.

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