Bf is uninterested in everything lately

is it normal my bf barely wants to have sex anymore? recently he’s not been wanting to do anything. not
even going out he wants to stay cooped up at his apartment all
day and be on his computer or playing video games 24/7. he ignores me and just acts like he’s mad at me all
the time. he says he isn’t he’s going though “stuff” but idk what. i ask and he says i don’t know...
he used to always want to have sex and do things but we don’t anymore. he’s very irritable lately. he is withdrawing and leening off of etizolam.. but idk. it makes me so frustrated and whenever i bring it up he seems annoyed and i just don’t know what to do

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  • sl33pysheepgirl

    Etziolam withdrawals should be taken into consideration here. People tend to look like totally different people on a consistent dose of benzos versus that same person on an inconsistent dose or lack thereof. This should seriously be researched and put into perspective.

    It could simply be that of he's "bored" with you
    But the probability of that based on simply the small amounts of information you provided; is small.

    What you described sounds like typical benzo withdrawals, with the fact you used to do 'everything' together - it's not just him not wanting you entirely, he also doesn't want to do anything else. He probably doesn't want to stress the actual problem because he's afraid of sounding like an addict.

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    • what do you know about etiz? i don’t know much about it...

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      • sl33pysheepgirl

        etziolam is almost 10x as powerful as valium.

        i'm not a pharmacologist, so i'll just give you a few links.

        https://www.addictionhelper.com/legal-highs/etizolam/withdrawal-detox/

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etizolam

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        • BlindSpot

          I agree. Could very well be a side effect or withdrawal effect of the medication.

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  • Absolutely normal... He's bored with you

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    • why? i’m with him all the time and he always wants me there. he’s been withdrawing from drugs so maybe that’s why?

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  • kelili

    He cannot expect you to understand if he doesn't speak about what's going wrong.

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    • what do u suggest

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      • kelili

        To be honest I don't have a damn idea. If I was in the same situation I would simply go away. I've promised myself some years ago that I won't let any love story get me unnecessary headache. But I cannot advise you to do this because a post doesn't resume a relationship and the feelings you have for him.

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        • why would you leave?

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          • kelili

            Because I don't like to let people mess in my head especially when I've done no wrong. It's either you talk and explain and if you don't I leave. No matter how hard I do it.

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  • 12Ncrawler35

    Maybe he’s just depressed or something is going on. Maybe there’s something personal going on and he doesn’t feel comfortable talking about it.

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    • sooo what should i do

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  • Handyman

    A visiting lover perhaps? Or a website lover chatting most of the day.

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  • Handyman

    He's bored. Leave him before it's to late.

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    • why do u think he’s bored

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      • Handyman

        Either he has a new lover, or he's had enough female sex.

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        • sl33pysheepgirl

          Seems like he's got one hell of a lover considering he stays "cooped up" at home "24/7"

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          • what do u mean

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