Bf has a picture his “ex” drew up

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so i recently found out that a picture he has had on his counter his ex made him when they were seeing each other. he only knew her a couple weeks and they never were official but they hooked up and he really liked her. i found out today that she drew it for him and i got kinda upset because who wouldn’t and he flipped out and got mad bc apparently that’s showing him i don’t care about his feelings and how i need to realize he has had a life before me. i apologized even tho i don’t rly need to.. isn’t it fucked up to have a picture some other girl drew you up when you have had a gf (me) for 2 years!? he’s threatening on breaking up with me over that and how i get jealous over other girls... apparently it’s still up because it’s the first thing a girl has ever made him. idk man. what do you think?9

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    For me, your jealousy would be an immediate deal breaker. You would go straight to the door, never to be heard from again.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      so it’s okay for him to put up something from another girl?

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      • McBean
        5 years ago

        Yes. I am very accepting of women who keep pictures or momentos of previous relationships in a special place. I am a widower and have a grouping of pictures on a wall in an unused corner of the house of my wife and memorable times when our kids were younger. Many widows that I have met have the same thing. Seeing their history tells you about them. I once dated a woman who asked if I would take those pictures down. That bitch was gone within an hour.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      Hurray!

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    I don't see any reason for you to get upset about it. Though I also don't see why he got angry for you being upset. I don't get what the problem is here honestly.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    I'm considered a fairly conservative woman by some people on this site, and I honestly think you are being way too jealous, controlling and overbearing. I would happily dump a man who acted that way towards me, and the souvenirs I have of past relationships. No one likes being suffocated, and controlled. You sound like that awful python, Kaa, from the Jungle Book. Yuck!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      You’re being contradicting. so is he in the wrong or am i too jealous?

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        You are insanely too jealous! Most people with even the slightest bit of self-respect would realize that it's better to be alone than to stay with a person who is jealous of their past relationships, and the stuff that person has acquired as a result of past relationships.

        You should spend less time obsessing over your relationship, and more time proofreading your posts. You write like a semi-illiterate child.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          jealous of their past relationships? what? she was never his girlfriend

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            It doesn't matter if she was an official girlfriend of his, or not. Stop nitpicking! The point is that you are unnecessarily jealous of someone from the past, and an item that this person from the past gave your partner. He is not obligated to throw away things from the past just to make you happy! The point is that you are too jealous! You need to get over it, or just leave, and move on with your life.

            Is this the girl who is dating the heroin addict guy who mooches off his parents, and is ten years older than her?

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