Bf hanging with friends instead of me on the 4th?

I asked my boyfriend today what he wanted to do for the Fourth of July. He said I don’t know I might hang out with my friends. I replied with what? And he said yeah.
that got me mad. he knows how important holidays are to me and he knows that I would want to hang out with them on the Fourth of July. we start arguing about this. i ask if i can come hangout and he says no because we’ve been fighting lately and it would be awkward for his friends bc they know all the drama. I ask if I can hang in his apartment for when he gets back and he says no. He then tells me to leave his apartment and I leave. 15 minutes later I got a call from him I don’t answer and I get text messages from him and I don’t respond. He then calls again and I answer and he apologizes. I tell him I’m not gonna sit around and not do anything on Fourth of July I will find someone to hang out with. He then asks what do you mean you’ll find someone and I say I’m gonna find someone I’m not sitting around. He then goes on to say I don’t really know what I’m gonna do will figure it out later but you can spend the night I just want to see my friends. And then he. he then tells me to leave his apartment and I leave. 15 minutes later I got a call from him I don’t answer and I get text messages from him and I don’t respond. He then called again and I answer and he apologizes. I tell him I’m not gonna sit around and not do anything on Fourth of July I will find someone to hang out with. He then asks what do you mean you’ll find someone and I say I’m going to find someone I’m not sitting around. Then goes on to say I don’t really know what I’m gonna do will figure it out later but you can spend the night I just want to see my friends. And then he tells me that he wants me to come back to his apartment and I do.
what do you think about this? is it fucked up for a boyfriend I don’t want to hang out with his girlfriend on the Fourth of July? do I have a right to be mad or upset about this? he was mad i reacted that way. i bet he said that i could stay at his apartment when he’s gone so he knows i’m not hanging with another guy.... idk. what do y’all think

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  • Sarajeremy

    Don't be too needy

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  • LOLFanProductions

    Damn girl, you would love my fiance!
    He prioritizes me above most people. It's kinda sad though because sometimes I encourage him to hangout with his friends.

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    • my bf never hangs with his friends, he’s pretty much always with me; that’s not the issue. the issue is what happened in this situation

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      • LOLFanProductions

        Well the situation is a jibber jabber due to your lack of paragraph structure.

        Also, the fourth of July?! Unless it's your anniversary, birthday, Valentine's Day, or Christmas; you shouldn't really care all that much. This is the perfect time to hang with your friends and get butt face wasted. Make plans with your friends and have yourself a dandy time!

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        • they’re all busy...

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          • LOLFanProductions

            How do you know they're all busy? Have you asked them?

            Also it's just one day, like imagine not seeing him for a week?

            I know how you feel. However as crappy as it is, let him go. There's nothing a man likes more than his freedom. Moreover if you allow him to be with his friends, your relationship could heal from all those heated arguments.

            Time is going to feel like an eternity, but it is worth it

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            • yeah. thank you. he told me I could sleep over and stay at his apartment while he’s out should I do that?

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  • Nikclaire

    Normal. After reading that, I'd rather hang out with his friends too.

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    • why? lol. shouldn’t u hang with ur significant other

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      • Isbjorn

        He should be able to do whatever he pleases. Explain, in a LESS emotional way why you would like him to change his mind. If he still disagrees, you should try and hang out with your friends. If you are still alone, you should deal with it or go to a bar. DON'T CHEAT ON HIM

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  • RoseIsabella

    This is the ex-heroin guy who is almost thirty years old, and hangs out with his douchebag friends all the time, and you are the girl who snoops through his stuff, huh?

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    • he doesn’t really hangout with his friends. he’s only hungout with them once in 4 months to watch basketball haha

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      • RoseIsabella

        Uh huh. Yeah, that's not an answer to my question, but I figure that it's probably you, the 19, or 20 year old chick who was chocked by her junkie boyfriend who choked her. Am I right?

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        • yes mam

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          • RoseIsabella

            Damn, I'm good!

            Anyway, you need to dump that guy.

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  • Mericans and their 4th of july crap. Celebrating not being under Britain's thumb, yet you idiots will listen to trump

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    • soo do you have any advice

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      • Yea, go hang with your friends, forget about him

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        • why?

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          • To get over it

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