Bf got a massage & didn’t tell me

so i can see my bfs location through his phone. and it showed he was at a massage place (one where he has been before and didn’t tell me) and he never told me!!! i had to look to see where he was... we facetimed later that night and he still hasn’t told me. why is he keeping this from me? even tho i found out lol. i obvi can’t tell him i’m tracking him

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Tracking him is creepy and uneccessary. Leave the relationship and don't get into another one if you have such big trust issues. Getting a massage is perfectly normal and fine, he doesn't have to tell you.

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    • giesbrechtgarry

      If you have to track him, he should know about it. If you don't trust him then get out.

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    • he’s got a massage 3 times since thanksgiving and hasn’t told me....

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      • Pumpurrnickel

        And?

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        • he’s been sick... he’s been to this place before and told me when i caught him that’s its not a front for handjobs etc... he said the first time he didn’t tell me bc it’s embrassig for him

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          • Pumpurrnickel

            I still don't understand why this bothers you. Getting a massage isn't a big deal.

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          • Fetiza000

            Are you a feminazi? Please dont be one of those people.

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            • I’m not

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  • sillygirl77

    It's NOT normal that you're spying on him. He got a massage big deal.

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    • Nickvey

      i bet he got the lucky sucky , i do. thats why i never tell my girlfriend .

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      • sillygirl77

        I feel sorry for your gf.

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        • I don’t have a gf

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          • sillygirl77

            I was talking to nickvey

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  • TerriAngel

    Jealous, maybe you need to work on your game.
    He's obviously getting something you don't provide.
    Satisfied people don't stray.

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    • it’s not a happy ending place

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  • MR.mr

    how is this keeping anything from you?
    he didnt do anything wrong and just didnt think to tell you

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    • He has looked up “happpy ending massage” ... sooo I’m kinda weirded out by it. But it’s a legit place... idk

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  • Was his junk stuck to his underwear?

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    • what

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      • He might be getting “the happy ending”. Ya know, blowing his load into the hands of the massage giver. You need to get busy.

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  • Nickvey

    if you either of you were any good at sex you be at the massage parlor already. getting cock. I'm not your boyfriend buying his pleasure. no need to get nasty ladies. you know the score. Id don't even know why you asked the question. All of the sudden im the cunt when you failed to satisfy your boyfriends? what's the problem ? He isn't paying you enough?

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    • What

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  • LOLFanProductions

    Girls like you shouldn't have boyfriend's smh 😒 Being jealous is immature and passes a negative vibe to your significant other. Not to mention it's one of the roots to a toxic relationship. I have a boyfriend and I only gotten jealous once. However, it was during the beginning of the relationship. Once I realized how bad jealousy is, I snapped out of it and started to be confident in our relationship. This may be irrelevant to you, but my advice is to do the same. Snap out of this poisonous act and either break up or be confident

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    • Thanks

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      • LOLFanProductions

        Are you being sarcastic or just generally saying thanks?

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        • No that’s pretty good advice. Sometimes I need to hear things like that. But a lot of people in my life think he is manipulative and shady... so I do stuff like this bc sometimes he’s sneaky

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          • nikkiclaire

            Maybe he is sneaky because you are spying on him like a crazy woman.

            Knock of the spying. There is nothing good that can possibly come from it.

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            • What if I find out something that I should know bc he doesn’t tell me

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  • You're exaggerating. He doesn't have to tell you everything he does. But you seem to drain him out of energy which is annoying and creates distance between you two.

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    • jaystrong

      Yeah, maybe for once he felt he didn't have to tell her this because he knew how she'd react?

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    • Lol like how do u know that by one post

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    • How do I drain him

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      • I can see by "He never told me!!!" and "I'm tracking him".

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  • Eminemisbae

    Next time when you see his location just call an ask where he's at..if he lies go to that place pretend to have a massage..or maybe tell him you're gonna have a massage then see his reaction..*btw what's the app for tracking location lol*

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    • uhm that’s kinda obvious... he’s already caught me tracking him before... and i’m still doing it. “find friends”

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      • Eminemisbae

        oh okay..but I don't think it's bad getting a massage though..unless it's a "massage" if you know what I mean..

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  • Dustyair

    Wow, you're a little paranoid, jealous, and insecure. Besides maybe it was from the Russians, and that's top secret anyways.

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