I just ended a 3+ year relationship maybe a month ago and my ex bf put me through the same exact thing. My ex used to say it was my fault that he cheated because I pushed him away and made him feel so unloved and unwanted that he cheated basically. I used to look at him like he was stupid and ask him if I pushed him away so hard that he tripped and his dick fell into her pussy and if that was how it was my fault. I would also sarcastically ask him if I was there holding a gun to his head while he fucked her and I forced him to fuck her, on multiple occasions at that.
Truthfully, I wish I would have walked away from the relationship way back then instead of sticking around and trying to work it out and get past that because it only got worse. My ex may not have cheated on me again but in the end he ended up beat the shit out of me and he broke me down so bad mentally that I honestly believed that the person I used to be was gone forever and I was forever going to be this pathetic, sad, depressed, defeated, abused version of myself forever.
It hasn't been very long since I escaped that asshole and it's been one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. He kept me isolated from everyone I knew for so long that when I finally got away I had no one I could turn to for help (and my family won't have anything to do with me) and I have been literally homeless on the streets in the middle of winter struggling just to survive. Don't end up in the same situation as I am. Get the fuck away from it all now before you have to deal with it. I knew if I had stayed with my ex for even a couple of months more he would have killed me. He even said so himself. There were a few times where I thought for sure that was it and I was done for. I got lucky. No one deserves that shit.
You're only staying with this asshole because you're lying to yourself and telling yourself that hes actually sorry and he actually loves you because you don't want to be alone and because you want someone to love you and whatnot. He has already proven that he doesn't love you and never will when he decided that fucking someone else was worth risking your relationship to begin with.
bf gets mad at me when i bring up him cheating
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I just ended a 3+ year relationship maybe a month ago and my ex bf put me through the same exact thing. My ex used to say it was my fault that he cheated because I pushed him away and made him feel so unloved and unwanted that he cheated basically. I used to look at him like he was stupid and ask him if I pushed him away so hard that he tripped and his dick fell into her pussy and if that was how it was my fault. I would also sarcastically ask him if I was there holding a gun to his head while he fucked her and I forced him to fuck her, on multiple occasions at that.
Truthfully, I wish I would have walked away from the relationship way back then instead of sticking around and trying to work it out and get past that because it only got worse. My ex may not have cheated on me again but in the end he ended up beat the shit out of me and he broke me down so bad mentally that I honestly believed that the person I used to be was gone forever and I was forever going to be this pathetic, sad, depressed, defeated, abused version of myself forever.
It hasn't been very long since I escaped that asshole and it's been one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. He kept me isolated from everyone I knew for so long that when I finally got away I had no one I could turn to for help (and my family won't have anything to do with me) and I have been literally homeless on the streets in the middle of winter struggling just to survive. Don't end up in the same situation as I am. Get the fuck away from it all now before you have to deal with it. I knew if I had stayed with my ex for even a couple of months more he would have killed me. He even said so himself. There were a few times where I thought for sure that was it and I was done for. I got lucky. No one deserves that shit.
You're only staying with this asshole because you're lying to yourself and telling yourself that hes actually sorry and he actually loves you because you don't want to be alone and because you want someone to love you and whatnot. He has already proven that he doesn't love you and never will when he decided that fucking someone else was worth risking your relationship to begin with.