Bf fingers my butthole but doesn't want anal?

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My boyfriend seems to really like fingering my butthole. If he's fingering me or going down on me he wants to touch both holes, and of course when we have sex he always wants his finger there.

At first, I made him stop because I thought he was just trying to warm me up for anal...but he insists he doesn't want to put anything more than his finger in there, so I've started letting him go ahead when we're fooling around or he's giving me oral, and the finger back there does feel good. I still get uncomfortable when we're having sex and he puts a finger in there, though, since it would be so easy for him to take his finger out and try to put his dick in. (I've had two really bad, awful, horrible experiences with anal and I definitely don't want to try it again.)

So I guess my question is, can I trust him? Is it normal for a boy to like fingering a girl's butt so much without wanting more?

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago | pl

    Sure, some guys may just like the feeling of feeling inside a butt. Let him know well ahead of time about your bad situations, and let him know if he tries to stick his dick in there without your OK, you can just kick him in the dick hard enough he will just need breasts and he can transition to female. To attempt anal, you need a partner you can 100% trust, you NEED to be ready to try, be relaxed, and no doubt he will abide by your wishes, and what you say would be it no questions. I often wonder about finding a female with a strap-on to do me. So I'm curious, oh well.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago | pl

    Yes. Absolutely normal.

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