bf doesn’t want terms on the open relationship

I dunno, I think a lot of people are afraid of being alone, but honestly I am and have been coming to the conclusion that the happily single life is highly underrated. I think if a person isn't meeting quality partners then that person could very much benefit from time spent alone to work on himself or herself. I had an unhappy relationship with a handsome, charming man who turned out to be a screaming asshole so I just decided I was better off alone with family, friends and well bred feline. It's insane how much better it can be to be alone and work on one's own self!

I think that not only are people afraid of being alone, but they are afraid of feeling lonely. The funny thing is that a person can be in relationship?, and still feel lonely which in my less than humble opinion is worse than being alone and lonely. Also being single and more solitary doesn't necessarily mean that one will feel lonesome.