Please go to Google, and just look up what does it mean when someone says, "if you believe that I've got a bridge I can sell you". You really are very naïve.
An open relationship is about dating other people. So then are you okay with him fucking other women? What about going with prostitutes, is that okay? Does he at least use condoms when he is with you? Do you realize he could very easily give you a sexually transmitted disease? Would you be okay with catching a deadly STD?
Do you honestly believe everything this guy tells you? Why do you need to "earn back" this scumbag's trust? You shouldn't have taken his selfish ass back! Yes, it's true that people shouldn't go through the phone's of one another, but this is a bit of a contradiction, because if you have gone through his phone, as you have, and have found reason to not trust him who the fuck is he to be bitching about not being able to trust you? Just find you some elderly couple(s), and ask them if any of this bullshit makes even the least bit of sense? My parents have been married for over 50 years, and they can hardly tell the difference between their phones. My parents practically use each other's phones interchangeably.
I'm sorry, sugar, but this guy is not marriage material. He even told you that he doesn't want to have kids with you. He's not serious about you. He's not worth your time or trouble. He complains about not being able to trust not because you are especially untrustworthy, but because he knows that he can't keep secrets from you, because you will be suspicious and find out his secrets. He is a fundamentally dishonest person. Yes, it's flaky as Hell that you go through his phone, but you have said yourself that you go through his phone, because he makes you suspicious.
There is a saying that goes, "crazy makes you crazy". Do you know what that means? It means that if you go with or hang around with a crazy person that that crazy person will drive you crazy! This piece of shit, junkie, deadbeat, loser who mooches off his mommy and daddy is driving you insane, and just using you for sex, money and the other resources you bring to the relationship. Answer me this, do you ever cook or clean the house? I bet you do, honey! Whatever labor you put forth into the relationship is a skill and a resource that he is too cheap to pay someone else to fo for him, because Lord knows he's too cheap to pay someone else to do it for him, and he's probably too lazy to do it himself.
Don't you see that you give and give, but all he does is take, take, take! Instead of believing all the bullshit he says believe his actions, and what his actions say about him. Remember when he bought you a used designer purse as a gift. Girl, is that what you want in this life? Do you want a bunch of hand me downs?
This guy will never be able to give you what you need, or give any woman what she needs, because he is a pampered piece of shit, spoiled brat of a person! He wants you around because you are C.P., constant pussy. Do you realize that most women can pretty much get sex whenever they want it, and this is true even of older, less attractive, overweight women. Well, for the most part it's not true of men in general.
This whole drama drama of yours kills me, because there's nothing you can do to change him, and make him a decent, respectful, hardworking real man, and yet I know you really want to do so, but he seems to be doing quite well at changing you. He wants you to be a complacent, submissive, stupid, naïve girl so that he can walk all over you.
You might not realize it, but the best thing that happened to you was when his sorry ass broke up with you! Now he's just trying to manipulate you into whatever he wants, and he seems to be succeeding.
Don't be afraid of being alone. You are better off without him!
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Please go to Google, and just look up what does it mean when someone says, "if you believe that I've got a bridge I can sell you". You really are very naïve.
An open relationship is about dating other people. So then are you okay with him fucking other women? What about going with prostitutes, is that okay? Does he at least use condoms when he is with you? Do you realize he could very easily give you a sexually transmitted disease? Would you be okay with catching a deadly STD?
Do you honestly believe everything this guy tells you? Why do you need to "earn back" this scumbag's trust? You shouldn't have taken his selfish ass back! Yes, it's true that people shouldn't go through the phone's of one another, but this is a bit of a contradiction, because if you have gone through his phone, as you have, and have found reason to not trust him who the fuck is he to be bitching about not being able to trust you? Just find you some elderly couple(s), and ask them if any of this bullshit makes even the least bit of sense? My parents have been married for over 50 years, and they can hardly tell the difference between their phones. My parents practically use each other's phones interchangeably.
I'm sorry, sugar, but this guy is not marriage material. He even told you that he doesn't want to have kids with you. He's not serious about you. He's not worth your time or trouble. He complains about not being able to trust not because you are especially untrustworthy, but because he knows that he can't keep secrets from you, because you will be suspicious and find out his secrets. He is a fundamentally dishonest person. Yes, it's flaky as Hell that you go through his phone, but you have said yourself that you go through his phone, because he makes you suspicious.
There is a saying that goes, "crazy makes you crazy". Do you know what that means? It means that if you go with or hang around with a crazy person that that crazy person will drive you crazy! This piece of shit, junkie, deadbeat, loser who mooches off his mommy and daddy is driving you insane, and just using you for sex, money and the other resources you bring to the relationship. Answer me this, do you ever cook or clean the house? I bet you do, honey! Whatever labor you put forth into the relationship is a skill and a resource that he is too cheap to pay someone else to fo for him, because Lord knows he's too cheap to pay someone else to do it for him, and he's probably too lazy to do it himself.
Don't you see that you give and give, but all he does is take, take, take! Instead of believing all the bullshit he says believe his actions, and what his actions say about him. Remember when he bought you a used designer purse as a gift. Girl, is that what you want in this life? Do you want a bunch of hand me downs?
This guy will never be able to give you what you need, or give any woman what she needs, because he is a pampered piece of shit, spoiled brat of a person! He wants you around because you are C.P., constant pussy. Do you realize that most women can pretty much get sex whenever they want it, and this is true even of older, less attractive, overweight women. Well, for the most part it's not true of men in general.
This whole drama drama of yours kills me, because there's nothing you can do to change him, and make him a decent, respectful, hardworking real man, and yet I know you really want to do so, but he seems to be doing quite well at changing you. He wants you to be a complacent, submissive, stupid, naïve girl so that he can walk all over you.
You might not realize it, but the best thing that happened to you was when his sorry ass broke up with you! Now he's just trying to manipulate you into whatever he wants, and he seems to be succeeding.
Don't be afraid of being alone. You are better off without him!