i’m just not sure why he wants to do this SD thing. he’s not even that rich. he’s 24. he owns a mediocre skateboard company but it isn’t huge. he still lives with his parents. just don’t get it
You may never understand, and I'm not sure either (different men have different reasons)
I do know that there can be a lot of "ego" satisfaction to being a SD... not to mention a wide variety of nice looking and very willing sex partners (which adds to the ego satisfaction of how good a "man" they are).
I could easily have had 3 different ladies a week from any of the sites I was on without even trying (or doing more than buying a cup of coffee, etc.), if that was what I wanted. But, I'm extremely selective and how they think and act is far more important to me than their bodies; and I've always looked for demonstrated long term friends first for any intimate partner (I don't do hook-ups or flings).
Again, I suggest that you move on. He might grow up some day, and he might not. Some habits are hard to break; and getting used to multiple readily available intimate partners can be a difficult one for most men to give up on.
If you want a man who is poly or involved in multiple partners - you should have a say up front in that (and be able to set rules and expectations: Any decent man owes you that, and you owe a man the same if you desire others as well). Permission up front with rules does wonders and prevents all kinds of issues.
bf cheated and i feel dumb for staying with him
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i’m just not sure why he wants to do this SD thing. he’s not even that rich. he’s 24. he owns a mediocre skateboard company but it isn’t huge. he still lives with his parents. just don’t get it
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You may never understand, and I'm not sure either (different men have different reasons)
I do know that there can be a lot of "ego" satisfaction to being a SD... not to mention a wide variety of nice looking and very willing sex partners (which adds to the ego satisfaction of how good a "man" they are).
I could easily have had 3 different ladies a week from any of the sites I was on without even trying (or doing more than buying a cup of coffee, etc.), if that was what I wanted. But, I'm extremely selective and how they think and act is far more important to me than their bodies; and I've always looked for demonstrated long term friends first for any intimate partner (I don't do hook-ups or flings).
Again, I suggest that you move on. He might grow up some day, and he might not. Some habits are hard to break; and getting used to multiple readily available intimate partners can be a difficult one for most men to give up on.
If you want a man who is poly or involved in multiple partners - you should have a say up front in that (and be able to set rules and expectations: Any decent man owes you that, and you owe a man the same if you desire others as well). Permission up front with rules does wonders and prevents all kinds of issues.
Again, I wish you the best...