I agree with what others have already said about cheaters cheating. If it had been a one-time, spur of the crazy moment sort of thing when the two of you were going through a difficult patch or had sorta-broken up and some girl had literally thrown herself at him, then yeah, maybe give the guy the benefit of the doubt, risk it and keep a very close eye on him. But what you describe is nothing at all like that.
I also agree with Rose that the most important question here is why the hell you're willing to tolerate this behaviour. You shouldn't have any delusions that you can make him behave in a way that you believe a boyfriend should, but you do have the power to dump his lying, cheating ass and move on.
bf cheated and i feel dumb for staying with him
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I agree with what others have already said about cheaters cheating. If it had been a one-time, spur of the crazy moment sort of thing when the two of you were going through a difficult patch or had sorta-broken up and some girl had literally thrown herself at him, then yeah, maybe give the guy the benefit of the doubt, risk it and keep a very close eye on him. But what you describe is nothing at all like that.
I also agree with Rose that the most important question here is why the hell you're willing to tolerate this behaviour. You shouldn't have any delusions that you can make him behave in a way that you believe a boyfriend should, but you do have the power to dump his lying, cheating ass and move on.