DUMP HIM! He's obviously some sort of or narcissistic manipulator, because look here he is caught red-handed trying to plan to cheat on you, and he still manages to turn the tables on you!
Yes, I would say "the trust is is broken", but unlike what others might think I think YOU should be the one who feels that there's no trust left, not him. He's a shitty shithead for calling an escort agency. Obviously he's given you other reasons to suspect that he's steppin out on you or planning to do so.
So what if he's threatening to break up with you, girl? YOU SHOULD BE DUMPING HIS SORRY ASS! Whether or not he wants to break up with you should be meaningless, because what you need to do is kick his sorry ass to the curb.
Wake up to the reality if the situation, break up with him in whatever way is easiest for you, and then move on with your life! Do it, do it now! Break up with him ASAP, y ou can thank you later.
Normally you give good advice, but in this case you're wrong. You don't assume someone is suicidal because they have the suicide hotline in their recent contact lists. The same goes for this; a lot of people think about calling, a few even go as far as dialing the number, but not many, especially those that cancel or hang up, are liable to attempt.
Additionally, calling an escort service is not a sign of wanting to cheat, it's a sign of being horny. You, as a woman, need to realize that men tend to be stupid as shit when horny. Obviously, according to what information she gave her explanation, he's embarrassed that he called. Embarrassment, shame, and remorse are siblings in the emotion word.
Acting confrontational about something he is embarrassed about yielded anger, and no one thinks clearly angry. All of you gave terrible advice in that regard; she should have been more nuanced than "I'm going to dump you if you don't say the right thing"
Nevermind, actually. I think i remember that post. A better question i have is if he's stopped doing those things when you asked him to. If he hasn't, dump him.
How the hell do you keep a boyfriend if your immediate response to any hint of infidelity is dumping them?
For all we know he was thinking of calling for her lol.
If the calls were cancelled, it means he's done with whatever the hell that was. Honestly, the relationship can be repaired. Unlike the typical form of cheating, there is no emotional attachment to an escort service(which, if canceled as you said it is, is already done and over with anyways). So if he can grow the fuck up, and if you can handle yourself well enough (i.e. not bring it up every time you have a fight/hold it against him for the rest of eternity), both of you can move on.
If you like him, you're going to have to get over it anyways, so you might as well. Although there needs to be some form of referendum as to what avenue you'll take to prevent future shit from happening, _without_ comprising either of your privacy too greatly.
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DUMP HIM! He's obviously some sort of or narcissistic manipulator, because look here he is caught red-handed trying to plan to cheat on you, and he still manages to turn the tables on you!
Yes, I would say "the trust is is broken", but unlike what others might think I think YOU should be the one who feels that there's no trust left, not him. He's a shitty shithead for calling an escort agency. Obviously he's given you other reasons to suspect that he's steppin out on you or planning to do so.
So what if he's threatening to break up with you, girl? YOU SHOULD BE DUMPING HIS SORRY ASS! Whether or not he wants to break up with you should be meaningless, because what you need to do is kick his sorry ass to the curb.
Wake up to the reality if the situation, break up with him in whatever way is easiest for you, and then move on with your life! Do it, do it now! Break up with him ASAP, y ou can thank you later.
Just do it!
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Normally you give good advice, but in this case you're wrong. You don't assume someone is suicidal because they have the suicide hotline in their recent contact lists. The same goes for this; a lot of people think about calling, a few even go as far as dialing the number, but not many, especially those that cancel or hang up, are liable to attempt.
Additionally, calling an escort service is not a sign of wanting to cheat, it's a sign of being horny. You, as a woman, need to realize that men tend to be stupid as shit when horny. Obviously, according to what information she gave her explanation, he's embarrassed that he called. Embarrassment, shame, and remorse are siblings in the emotion word.
Acting confrontational about something he is embarrassed about yielded anger, and no one thinks clearly angry. All of you gave terrible advice in that regard; she should have been more nuanced than "I'm going to dump you if you don't say the right thing"
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He said calling was an accident. So you think I should get over it?
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He saved it to his phone. Are you the poster who's boyfriend gets massages too?
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SPOT ON!
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Nevermind, actually. I think i remember that post. A better question i have is if he's stopped doing those things when you asked him to. If he hasn't, dump him.
Well he is obviously after some strange. It's up tp you what to do with that knowledge.
How the hell do you keep a boyfriend if your immediate response to any hint of infidelity is dumping them?
For all we know he was thinking of calling for her lol.
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Well, I have a girlfriend but regardless I never said dump. I was pointing out there is no mistaken call.
If the calls were cancelled, it means he's done with whatever the hell that was. Honestly, the relationship can be repaired. Unlike the typical form of cheating, there is no emotional attachment to an escort service(which, if canceled as you said it is, is already done and over with anyways). So if he can grow the fuck up, and if you can handle yourself well enough (i.e. not bring it up every time you have a fight/hold it against him for the rest of eternity), both of you can move on.
If you like him, you're going to have to get over it anyways, so you might as well. Although there needs to be some form of referendum as to what avenue you'll take to prevent future shit from happening, _without_ comprising either of your privacy too greatly.