Bf called an escort service

Ok so idk what a “skipper” is but it said he called that contact name on his phone. Looked up that number and it led to a fucking escort service!!! I did snoop but uhm wtf?? What should I do & how should I confront him... the calls were canclded but he called the number saturday and then again on Sunday!!

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Simple. He's cheating on you, or is planning to, so dump him.

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    • Update: he said it was an accident

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      • RoseIsabella

        It was such a big accident that he named that contact on his list Skipper after his favorite prostitute.

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        • Apparently this escort was from years ago when he didn’t get laid

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      • An "accident"? Sounds like a half baked excuse if I've ever heard one.

        He's either already cheated, or was intending to cheat.

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        • He’s cheated bc he accidentally called a prositute ? This person was from when he used to be rat and ugly

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          • Why does he still even have the contact?

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      • lol

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        • What’s funny

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    • RoseIsabella

      Amen, amen I say to you!

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  • noid

    Just break up

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    • He said it was an accidnet

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      • Dear fucking god! Next he will tell u that he "accidentally fell on her pussy 485 times". He's fucking around. Deal with it and leave before you have a baby by him infected with HIV. And quit being naive.

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        • He yells at me and says it’s annoyingly when I accuse him of cheating cuz he’s never done it

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    Looks like he's cheating. Dump him and find someone more honest. If you really want to make sure, I suppose you could tell him what you found and ask him what's that about. Though I'm not sure how honest he will be.

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    • He said it was an accident. The calls to the service were canceled anyways

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    • RoseIsabella

      I'm not one to place bets, but if I were a gambling woman I'd be willing to bet a year's income that this piece of shit guy would lie!
      😉

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      • You mean that men lie when it comes to sex? Rosie, shut your mouth!

        Joking aside, this is not cool. He's gambling with her health and that's fucked up.

        My wife and i have an open relationship, but we don't sneak around and have risky behaviour. She needs to cut this prick off now!

        Before she gets a report from the doctor that says she has herpeghonnasyphylaids.

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        • Checkmate_King

          heheh honest honey I'll only put the head in and pull out before I cum.

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        • Zandonus

          Who said hookers have all the diseases. Virgins can have std's too.

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          • Ellenna

            How could they? You do know what the initials STD stand for don't you?

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        • Why do you have an open relationship ?

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          • We agreed that neither of us has the right to tell the other what to do. We have never had sex with anyone else, but the door is open to do so.

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      • Apparently

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      • Wait what

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        • RoseIsabella

          You heard me! I'm not a gambler, and I wouldn't want to play with money unless I were sure I'd be guaranteed to make money, and I'm reasonably sure I'd make money if I could get a bet on whether or not he is lying to you. I'm sure, as is everyone else here on the Is It Normal community, that this dude lies to you on a continuous basis.

          It seems like you're willing to believe anything this dude tells you. He could tell you the sky was green, and you'd believe it. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just keeping it real.

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          • Checkmate_King

            Right on. Correctamundo. He's a lyin' creep. You want to believe him and that clouds your reasoning.

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            • RoseIsabella

              Yes, OP is having trouble hearing the truth because that's not what she's looking for.

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  • mm6969

    He has asked you more than once to do something that he sexually desires. You quickly told him no. Now he is looking for it elsewhere. I ask for pleasure from a woman. I will do anything in my power to satisfy my woman.

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  • magic7

    May be fun if he called for a three way

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  • dirtybirdy

    Fooled you once, shame on him.
    Fooled you twice... shame on you.

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    • What how

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  • bigbudchonga

    I think hookers are worse than they seem tbh. He definitely should have had a conversation with you first, but what was he telling someone his deep personal secrets, was he bonding with another person spiritually/deeply no. He was in it for raw sexual pleasure and that's all it was. Dishonest yes, as bad as cheating definitely not.

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    • Ellenna

      What do you mean when you say sex workers are worse than they seem?

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      • bigbudchonga

        Generally they just fulfill a purely physical desire, that's it.

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        • Ellenna

          How does that make sex workers worse than they seem?

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          • bigbudchonga

            Because it's not a deep connection. We're guys, we're horny all the time. Whilst that doesn't justify it, i think the perception of this as cheating is a bit off. It's likely got none of the emotional connection and is more akin to masturbation tied in wit betrayal

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            • Ellenna

              It's not supposed to be a deep connection and that's not necessarily "worse" than a more meaningful connection, it's just different.

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            • He canceled the cAlls. But he called her two days in a row. Tf

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        • Isn’t that my job

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          • bigbudchonga

            True

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    • How is that not as bad as cheating ????

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      • bigbudchonga

        Because cheating is so much more than a purely physical base attraction. No one's turning a hooker into a housewife, your position isn't in jeopardy one bit.

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        • Yeah but he said he would never cheat and hooking up with someone and not telling me / being unfaithful is cheating

          Even tho he didn’t do anything, doing so would be bad. And if you don’t agree you’re wrong

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  • Sorry to say, but your bf/hubby or whatever is a cheating piece of shit. Don't be naive and give him the benefit of the doubt. Too obvious. He's an asshhole for risking your health (HIV, herpes). Tell him that you aren't a stupid bitch and he needs to stop or you are going to leave. The ball is in your court and you can't let him jeopardise your health. Good luck, hun.

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    • Checkmate_King

      Or you can turn the tables by fucking some guys at the bus station, contracting some scrofulous venereal disease, and giving it to him as an example of what would happen if he fucked around...

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  • lonewolf1253

    Maybe you don't satisfy him?

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    • No. I do haha

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  • RoseIsabella

    From now on I am going to call you Cleopatra!

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    • What does that even mean

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      • RoseIsabella

        The Queen of Denial, because the Queen of the Nile sounds a lot like Queen of Denial. It's a pun.

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  • Whatintarnation

    Well either way you're screwed now. He's planning to cheat on you and even if he doesn't he won't trust you anymore. It's human nature to snoop I believe but trust will be gone now. End it and move on.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Well, I do think cheating, or planning to cheat is infinitely worse than snooping.

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      • Whatintarnation

        I'm not trying to say they are on the same level. One is way worse than the other. All I'm saying is that it'll be something he can throw at her now in any argument he's losing. Might as well move on.

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        • RoseIsabella

          True that. If my hunch is correct I have reason to believe that OP is the same young person who has written multiple posts regarding boyfriend trouble with a guy who is quite the dirtbag. I honestly think she ought to cut her loses especially if she iis who I think she she is.

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      • Haha right

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    • How should I confront him

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      • Whatintarnation

        No easy way to break it off. Just say I had a suspicion about you so I looked on your phone and confirmed. We're done. Have a nice life. Plenty of fish in the sea

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        • Haha that’s a good response! But I feel like I need to ask him just to make sure I’m not wrongly accusing him. He did call an escort but the calls were canceled

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          • Whatintarnation

            Gotta play it by ear I guess. If you trust him, maybe it was just a mistake. Just be prepared for the feces to hit the fan.

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            • I confronted him and he threatened to break up with me. Told me that calling was an accidnet. But he says he can’t put up with me bc I got mad at him and stuff

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          • Ellenna

            And you'll totally believe him if he denies it? Really?

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      • Checkmate_King

        Don't. Could get ugly. Break up with a text and never see him again. He deserves it.

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        • How could it get ugly? I need to confront him about this. The calls were canceled so obvi he didn’t ask her to come over. I just need to confront him about even the intention of it

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          • RoseIsabella

            You don't need to confront him, that's just what you WANT to do, but it isn't what you need to do. Just dump HIM! This bullshit should make you feel angry not desperate.

            Why do you NEED to confront him? What you need is to dump him instead.

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            • Bc the calls were canceled. Meaning he didn’t stay on the phone for more than 3 seconds

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  • Youngpussy123

    Are u giving the man enough pussy I'd say no my man knows I got good pussy n won't cheat I give him all he wants !!!

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    • IOrderdedMcNuggetsNotMcPubics

      Stfu rayb12, you dumb old ugly cunt.

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    • Me too. We have sex all the time

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      • RoseIsabella

        I hope you are using condoms, because at this rate he will get you pregnant and give you a disease!

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    • Checkmate_King

      Keep his belly full and his balls empty. Bone up on your blowjob skills. Use them often.

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  • Youngpussy123

    Evdently he's tapping someone else's pussy not youres dump him unless u want a vd!!

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    • IOrderdedMcNuggetsNotMcPubics

      Stfu rayb12, you dumb old ugly cunt.

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