if i get slightly jealous in his opinion he freaks out. like last night, i saw when he was on his fb a girl messaged him and i tried to let it go, but an hour passed and i wanted to ask him about it. so i did and he flipped out on me. accused me of going on his other computers and finding it. i just asked. i didn’t get mad.
This is precisely why you need to break up with him, my dear! He's probably some kind of narcissistic abuser. You are the codependent partner who is trying to change him, and holding on for dear life to a relationship that is toxic. This relationship is very bad for your self-esteem, and self respect.
I honestly don't know whether you should, or should not ask about his Facebook stuff. He's that heroin addict guy, isn't he?
Regardless, I think you should learn to understand that a loving relationship is not one where a person like yourself should to feel like walking on eggshells. This relationship you are in is toxic.
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Why is he fighting with you though? Are you being unreasonable?
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if i get slightly jealous in his opinion he freaks out. like last night, i saw when he was on his fb a girl messaged him and i tried to let it go, but an hour passed and i wanted to ask him about it. so i did and he flipped out on me. accused me of going on his other computers and finding it. i just asked. i didn’t get mad.
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This is precisely why you need to break up with him, my dear! He's probably some kind of narcissistic abuser. You are the codependent partner who is trying to change him, and holding on for dear life to a relationship that is toxic. This relationship is very bad for your self-esteem, and self respect.
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should i of not asked about that facebook message i saw?
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I honestly don't know whether you should, or should not ask about his Facebook stuff. He's that heroin addict guy, isn't he?
Regardless, I think you should learn to understand that a loving relationship is not one where a person like yourself should to feel like walking on eggshells. This relationship you are in is toxic.
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yeah. and well, is it normal if a girlfriend sees their partner getting a message from another girl, to ask nicely about it? that’s what i did.
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... but it's not normal to stay with a guy who always triggers your jealousy, plays with your emotions, and just generally treats you like crap.
Why are you going through his computer though?
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i didn’t...?