Bf always he’s breaking up with me

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my bf, whenever we get into a fight, says “we’re done for good this time. don’t come to my apartment ever again” but then hours later he always calls me and voiced his frustration but then things go back to normal? this happened last night and happens a lot when we fight. why does he always use breaking up as a weapon? when he texted me last night after he kicked me out of his apartment i got a text 30 minutes later sayin, “i’m completely done this tine” i didn’t respond and now it’s the next morning and idk what to do... should i call him?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I'll go out with you then

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Oh you have not messaged me back yet! well I'm done it's over

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Sorry, sorry. I didn't mean it. c'm here

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          What I open my heart and say sorry but you don't? I am dead serious it is over, never text me again.

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            Sorry babe, it will never happen again. I promise

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    Are you the facebook snooper that got booted from the dude's his apartment? https://www.isitnormal.com/post/bf-got-mad-at-me-for-this-280517 what's with the multiple posts? Didn't one give you enough attention? I think you two deserve each other. But please don't procreate.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    If you're a pathetic loser, go ahead and call him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      is he in the wrong or am i?

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    Don't contact him today or ever again: what are you doing with this narcissistic manipulative bully?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      he aplologized

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      • Ellenna
        5 years ago

        Not sure who I'm quoting, but there's a concept that an apology without a sincere commitment to not repeat the behavior being apologised for, is worthless. I would add also worthless if the person apologising isn't clear about what s/he is apologising for: "I'm sorry" means nothing by itself, it's another manipulation.

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  • 1ne8ight7even
    5 years ago

    Probably bored of you and just looking for an excuse to kick you to the curb.

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  • Gland
    5 years ago

    You sound miserable. He is a bad person but you're definitely his kind for saying yes everytime like the poor loyal dog you seems to be.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    If you don't have great make up sex then why bother? Sounds like an unhealthy relationship that neither of you seem to be getting much out of.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    5 years ago

    Humans are complicated. He is either insecure, has control issues, or grew up in a household where no one took him seriously. Confront him about why he keeps resorting to breaking up with you and tell him it is NOT OKAY. If he wants to be with you he needs to try. If he is willing to give it all up during one small fight then tell him you can just go find someone who is willing to work with you to have a partnership.

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  • brutus
    5 years ago

    The couple that fights together, stays together.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    Next time just don't answer that call where he apologises. He's acting like a little kid. Go find a real man and go out with him instead.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Why is he fighting with you though? Are you being unreasonable?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      if i get slightly jealous in his opinion he freaks out. like last night, i saw when he was on his fb a girl messaged him and i tried to let it go, but an hour passed and i wanted to ask him about it. so i did and he flipped out on me. accused me of going on his other computers and finding it. i just asked. i didn’t get mad.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        This is precisely why you need to break up with him, my dear! He's probably some kind of narcissistic abuser. You are the codependent partner who is trying to change him, and holding on for dear life to a relationship that is toxic. This relationship is very bad for your self-esteem, and self respect.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          should i of not asked about that facebook message i saw?

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            I honestly don't know whether you should, or should not ask about his Facebook stuff. He's that heroin addict guy, isn't he?

            Regardless, I think you should learn to understand that a loving relationship is not one where a person like yourself should to feel like walking on eggshells. This relationship you are in is toxic.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              yeah. and well, is it normal if a girlfriend sees their partner getting a message from another girl, to ask nicely about it? that’s what i did.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        5 years ago

        Why are you going through his computer though?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          i didn’t...?

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