Best friend love

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OK so I have this amazing bestfriend who I love to death and she knows I do. But I got a problem ever since I met her none of my girlfriends have added up too her. Shes the most amazing girl ever and I would do anything for her. I have a girlfriend right now that I love but deep down I'm hooked on my bestfriend. I know its wrong and I would never wanna hurt the girl im with shes just as amazing. But my best friend is way different I ahve more in common with her and we get along soooo great. I'm really desperate on some advice. I can't hurt the girl im with, one of my rules i have is to NEVER leave a girl for another its wrong and hurtful. I dont know what to do.

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  • Carrie-awesome
    13 years ago

    Maybe this helps you; I've known my best friend for 17 years, we grew up together, we know each other inside out. So right now I am in love with him and too scared to tell him. Ever since I have fallen in love with him, none of the other guys seemed even remotely interesting to me.
    You love your best friend and that's completely normal. The relationship with the girl you're with at the moment won't last, I can promise you that. Don't you think it's more honest to tell your girlfriend that you're in love with another woman, rather than lying to her?

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  • almostunreadable
    14 years ago

    Just watch out that you don't loose both in the process.

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  • Kayli
    14 years ago

    I was in the same situation with my best friend. Chances are is that she wants to be with you too. Although it may be difficult, you should end things with your girlfriend. You're not 100% committed to a relationship with her right now. You are always going to be thinking "what if...?". If you do decide to date your best friend, wait a while and keep it on the down low so you don't seem sleezy. Good luck! I hope everything works out!

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  • BlackSaviour
    14 years ago

    ok man,you need to get your game face on,you plan the best day of her life,make her the happiest girl alive,and the whole day,you smile! you never stop smiling even when your face hurts,when she asks say its cus of her,the whole day be close to her,never leave her,do what SHE wants to do,then at the end of the day,your going to tell her you like her as more then a friend,your going to tell her your love and she is gonna feel the same!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    So, ask your friend out then. I am going to be marrying my best friend shortly and I am much happier this way then the several more attractive girls I dated before that had nothing inside. Marry your best friend.

    Its been two years and we never argue so I'm happy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I gather you are a teen & think you should turn it down a notch or two, and start dating. You are not married and making vows.

    Geez - don't teens just date anymore? What's with all this fidelity to one person when that is not the way you feel & what you want to do is circulate.

    Somewhere between no-one & that exclusive someone is other people. You are allowed to date, see others, grow up, get experiences in relationships, and - for god's sake - have some fun.

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    • Tricky
      14 years ago

      Well actually I'm 20 years old. And I'm ready too settle down and begin my life with the one I love.

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      • Tricky
        14 years ago

        Believe me I would in a heartbeat but she doesn't like me that way and it sucks. When I first met her she did like me that way, but I only saw her as a friend and that was it. Then she moved on and we became friends. When she liked me that way I never knew she did until months after when she didnt look at me that way. =(

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