Best friend ditched me, iin?

This is been the hardest several months of my life so far. I have been going through all these changes in my health that scare me, I am about to make the biggest career move I have ever taken and with all this going on there is something that makes it bother me even more. My best friend isnt here. He went his own way. He never really gave me a reason on why he decided to ditch me and stop calling or answering my calls. The anger turned to hurt and now all I feel is loneliness. He used me more money and something to do when he had nothing to do but I guess I still miss him. He was my best friend. What do I do? Is this normal to feel this way?

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Based on 36 votes (31 yes)
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  • Adelaide

    Sadly, this is normal...

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  • BoredGuy

    not normal

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  • Sharonkay63

    I can understand. I got dropped by family and friends over an illness that they decided they didn't want to be a part of. No generosity or empathy. No support when I needed it most. I was treated like the plague. It was very painful, but yes, some people will dissapear in a crisis. Sorry! I hope you are able to move on with your life. The best revenge is to move forward and live your life without them. Things will get better.

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  • Omega-Claws

    You didn't do anything, it was him. Im sure you were a good friend

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  • Lostboy

    Yeah j guess ur both right. I guess I felt like he was a little brother to me. I helped him out a lot. I'm so sad about it now. I just wish I knew what I did ya know?

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  • Omega-Claws

    I've had this happen to me, you need to move on and forget about him. Think of it this way; he doesn't care about you so why care about him. It helped me to move on.

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