Of course it is, but the way my mom talked about it, it was as though there was no option to prevent pregnancy and that babies was the only function that sex had. It was like sex for fun or even the idea that sex was a personal thing between two people who love each other wasn't even an option.
Yeah, my mom freaked me out too, but wasn't trying to scare me. She just said, "the man sticks the dick in the woman's ...".
If I were you I would try to forget about whatever your mom said and how she said it. Focus on just the bare facts and then try to decide what your personal moral and religious beliefs are regarding sex and reproduction.
Block out her message entirely. Try not to deliberately go in the complete opposite direction simply for the sake of rebellion nor feel guilty about dismissing her messages. This might sound douchey, but try to detach from whatever she was trying to instill in you with love. I suspect that you need calm so that you can discern what your beliefs are instead of reacting to hers.
You don't need to tell her any of this. It can and should be a very private thing between you and God.
Being taught the "scare tactic" about sex has screwed me up
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Of course it is, but the way my mom talked about it, it was as though there was no option to prevent pregnancy and that babies was the only function that sex had. It was like sex for fun or even the idea that sex was a personal thing between two people who love each other wasn't even an option.
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Yeah, my mom freaked me out too, but wasn't trying to scare me. She just said, "the man sticks the dick in the woman's ...".
If I were you I would try to forget about whatever your mom said and how she said it. Focus on just the bare facts and then try to decide what your personal moral and religious beliefs are regarding sex and reproduction.
Block out her message entirely. Try not to deliberately go in the complete opposite direction simply for the sake of rebellion nor feel guilty about dismissing her messages. This might sound douchey, but try to detach from whatever she was trying to instill in you with love. I suspect that you need calm so that you can discern what your beliefs are instead of reacting to hers.
You don't need to tell her any of this. It can and should be a very private thing between you and God.